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	<title>would agree that</title>
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				<title>The Entrepreneurial Potental Quiz</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 29 Sep 2006 08:27:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<category>entrepreneurial traits</category><category>competent</category><category>business owner</category><category>emotional stability</category><category>congenial</category><category>objectivity</category><category>competitiveness</category>		<guid>http://www.artwoo.com/article/the-entrepreneurial-potental-quiz</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The 25 questions in this quiz are designed to measure competi­tiveness, self-reliance, patience, emotional stability, flexibility, objectivity, and other important entrepreneurial traits. When you've finished, you can total your score to see how you might fare as a business owner. Give yourself 4]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[The 25 questions in this quiz are designed to measure competi­tiveness, self-reliance, patience, <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/emotional+stability" rel="tag">emotional stability</a>, flexibility, <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/objectivity" rel="tag">objectivity</a>, and other important <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/entrepreneurial+traits" rel="tag">entrepreneurial traits</a>. When you've finished, you can total your score to see how you might fare as a <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/business+owner" rel="tag">business owner</a>. Give yourself 4 points for each A answer, 3 points for each B answer, 2 points for each C answer, and 1 point for each D answer. <br /><br /> 1. I would readily give up the security of working for someone else for the autonomy of running my own business, even if it meant more work and less pay. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 2. I'm more determined than most people and can do just about anything I set my mind to. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 3. I have a sharp, analytical mind. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 4. I've worked long hours for extended periods of time in my previous jobs, and I'd still be willing and able to do so if necessary. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 5. I've always been driven to be the best in everything I do. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 6. I can deal with chronic problems and obstacles without get­ ting frustrated or losing my temper. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 7. I welcome a challenge and hate to feel like I'm wasting my time on routine tasks. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 8. I value competence over personality, and would rather work with a difficult person who's <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/competent" rel="tag">competent</a> than a person who's very <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/congenial" rel="tag">congenial</a> but less competent. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 9. I'm more likely to organize a group of people and take charge than to follow the lead of others. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 10. I'm more comfortable making decisions and giving orders than having decisions made for me and taking orders. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 11. I'm efficient and able to stick to a strict timetable in order to complete tasks in a timely way. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 12. I'd value my employees' well-being, but not at the expense of my business. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 13. Given reasonable odds, my efforts usually influence the outcome of an endeavor. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 14. My energy level is higher than that of most people. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 15. I'm able to remain calm and perform well in a crisis. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 16. I can be patient and acknowledge when a situation is be­ yond my control. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 17. I love the challenge of analyzing, attacking, and complet­ ing a complex task. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 18. I've often led and directed projects and groups. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 19. I can easily change course once I've started a project. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 20. I'm capable of firing an unproductive employee, although I would not be happy at the prospect of doing it. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 21. I like to experiment and try new things--from meeting new people to trying new activities. <br /><br /> A. strongly agree <br /><br /> B. moderately agree <br /><br /> C. moderately disagree <br /><br /> D. strongly disagree <br /><br /> 22. I've had years of experience, either in business or as a hobby, in the field in which I plan to start a business. <br /><br /> A. more than 3 <br /><br /> B. 1 to 3 <br /><br /> C. between 6 months and 1 <br /><br /> D. 0 <br /><br /> 23. I've had the following business experience: <br /><br /> A. owned and managed my own business <br /><br /> B. management-level experience (supervised others) <br /><br /> C. employee-level experience (no supervisees) <br /><br /> D. none <br /><br /> 24. I've been ill to the extent that it curtailed my activi­ ties days over the past three years. <br /><br /> A. 0 to 5 <br /><br /> B. 6 to 10 <br /><br /> C. 11 to 15 <br /><br /> D. 16 or more <br /><br /> 25. I function most effectively if I get at least hours of sleep a night. <br /><br /> A. 5 or less <br /><br /> B. 6 <br /><br /> C. 7 <br /><br /> D. 8 <br /><br /> INTERPRETING YOUR SCORE <br /><br /> 92-100 The Fortune 500 Awaits! <br /><br /> You possess most, if not all, of the key personality and be­havioral traits of the successful entrepreneur. Get to work! <br /><br /> 84-91 Go For It! <br /><br /> You're no Micheal Dell , but you still possess an encouraging number of entrepreneurial characteristics. If your score on the last five questions was 23 or above, your behavioral attitudes   <bio>Bill Piker Senior Employment Counsellor / Labour Dispatcher Ace Employment Services Winnipeg billys_office@yahoo.com <a href="http://www.ace-training.net" >http://www.ace-training.net</a> <a href="http://www.aceemploymentservices.com" >http://www.aceemploymentservices.com</a> </bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>How to Get Your Ex Back</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 15:29:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you have broken up with your ex and you are looking for ways to get him or her back you would know how frustrating it can sometimes be especially if you do not know what you need or what you have tried did not work. The good thing though is that there are several things you can do to get your ex]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/" rel="tag"></a>If you have broken up with your ex and you are looking for ways to get him or her back you would know how frustrating it can sometimes be especially if you do not know what you need or what you have tried did not work. The good thing though is that there are several things you can do to get your ex back and this article would show you some of them.<br><br>The first thing you would need to do is to find out why you and your ex broke up in the first place and the reason why this is important is because once you know why you and your ex broke up it would be a lot easier to convince your ex to at least agree to meet with you. For instance if you and your ex broke up because your ex felt you were spending too much time away from each other, you can let him or her know that you know what the issue is all about and that you are willing to talk about fixing the problem.<br><br>The next thing you would need to do is to find out how your ex has been doing since the two of you broke up and the easiest way to do this would be to ask someone you know is close to your ex, the reason why this is important is because how your ex has been doing would determine what your chances are of getting back with him or her for instance if your ex has not been seeing someone else and a friend of your ex tells you that he or she has always being talking about you or missing you then this means that it would probably be a lot easier to get back with him or her. But if your ex is already seeing someone else, getting him or her back would be a lot harder.<br><br>You then need to find a way to meet with your ex and the best way to do this would be to go to somewhere you know your ex would be and just let him or her know that you would like to meet with him or her to talk about things, the key thing here is to see whether your ex would agree to meet you, if your ex does agree to meet with you then it means that he or she is open to getting back with you or at least he or she is willing to hear what you have to say. Try to make sure you meet in a place that brings good memories for the two of you and it does not have to be related to your relationship, it can be a place the two of you always talked about or it can even be a place the two of you regularly like to meet.<br><br>During your meeting with your ex, try to let him or her know that you know what you did wrong and let him or her know what you are willing to do about it. Do not try to get back immediately you can let him or her know that you are willing to take things slow or you are ready start things over. As long as the reason you broke up was not too serious or your ex is not seeing someone else you should be able to remain at least friends and then rebuild your relationship from here.<bio>You can find out how to get your ex back using the <a href="http://www.magicofmakingups.com" target="_top">Magic Of Making Up</a> and if you would like to find out more about it, you can do so by visiting this website http://www.helpfulproductreviews.com/makingup.htm</bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>What Is Collusion At An Auction?</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 16 Nov 2006 14:27:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<category>auction</category><category>collusion</category><category>pallet</category><category>printers</category><category>says hes</category><category>auctioneers</category><category>live auctions</category>		<guid>http://www.artwoo.com/article/what-is-collusion-at-an-auction</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If you've never been to a live auction, then you may not have ever heard of the term "collusion." Not all auctioneers mention it, so even if you have been to an auction or two, you may never have heard of the term.  Collusion can be defined as "The unlawful practice whereby two or more people agree]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[If you've never been to a live <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/auction" rel="tag">auction</a>, then you may not have ever heard of the term "<a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/collusion" rel="tag">collusion</a>." Not all <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/auctioneers" rel="tag">auctioneers</a> mention it, so even if you have been to an auction or two, you may never have heard of the term. <br /><br /> Collusion can be defined as "The unlawful practice whereby two or more people agree not to bid against one another so as to deflate value or when the auctioneer accepts a fictitious bid on behalf of the seller so as to manipulate or inflate the price of the property." <br /><br /> Despite the fact that it's illegal, it's still a pretty common event <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/live+auctions" rel="tag">live auctions</a>. <br /><br /> Here's a typical scenario. You're at an auction and let's say you're looking at a <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/pallet" rel="tag">pallet</a> of computers. You see a lot of items on there that you could use and say to yourself that you'll be bidding on that. You notice there are some <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/printers" rel="tag">printers</a> on the pallet that you don't need, but will still bid on the pallet when the time comes. Now, while you're looking at this pallet of computers, another bidder has noticed your interest and approaches you. He asks you if you're interested in the computers or the printers. You tell him you're only interested in the computers. He says he's only interested in the printers and wants to make an agreement with you. He says he wants to bid on the pallet, but will not bid if you agree to sell him the printers for half the bid price. Now if you agree, that's collusion. <br /><br /> It may sound tempting, but as enticing as it may be, don't do it. It hurts the seller at the auction because now there's less competition than there should be for the items and makes it likely that the item will sell for less than it would have. <br /><br /> Some auctioneers have even been known to plant people to try to get people to agree to collusion, and if you do...well, it's not good. <br /><br /> Now let's look at collusion from the other side where the seller uses it to his advantage. In this case, the seller would plant a person to bid on an auction in order to artificially run up the price on the auction. This person has no interest in buying the item. They just want to make you pay more than you would have had to. <br /><br /> Next time you're at an auction, just keep in mind what collusion is and avoid it. Keep the game fair. An auction is already a place where you can get a great deal.   <bio>Gary Ruplinger is a former eBay Powerseller and shares his tips to getting up to 420% more for your eBay in his free report - eBay Conversion Secrets. To get this free report, visit <a href="http://www.auctionconversionsecrets.com" >http://www.auctionconversionsecrets.com</a> </bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>The Downfalls Of But</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 27 Nov 2007 21:35:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<category>persuasive power</category><category>wishy washy</category><category>dangerous word</category><category>saw it coming</category><category>forms of communication</category><category>indecisiveness</category><category>romantic interest</category>		<guid>http://www.artwoo.com/article/the-downfalls-of-but</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[ I really like you, but...  I agree with you, but...  Your hair looks great, but...  How do these three examples strike you? Do you get the feeling that what's coming next might not be very agreeable?  Learning to have a precision with language is one of the most important aspects of persuasion.]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[ I really like you, but... <br /><br /> I agree with you, but... <br /><br /> Your hair looks great, but... <br /><br /> How do these three examples strike you? Do you get the feeling that what's coming next might not be very agreeable? <br /><br /> Learning to have a precision with language is one of the most important aspects of persuasion. The big 'but' is a negator which will cost you <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/persuasive+power" rel="tag">persuasive power</a>. <br /><br /> 'But' weakens your ability to persuade. This is across the board--in print, in conversations, in e-mail, in all <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/forms+of+communication" rel="tag">forms of communication</a>. It's a tiny, yet <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/dangerous+word" rel="tag">dangerous word</a>. <br /><br /> Here's an explanation of how 'but' can hurt you. Let's take an example from above. Have you ever had a <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/romantic+interest" rel="tag">romantic interest</a> say to you, 'You know, I really like you a lot, but. . . '? Ouch. I'm not sure I want to hear what's next. '. . . but I'd just like to be friends.' Bummer. And yet, you <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/saw+it+coming" rel="tag">saw it coming</a> at the but, didn't you? <br /><br /> Then there's, 'I agree with you, but. . .' But what? 'But it's just too expensive.' Ugh. 'But I still think I'm right.' <br /><br /> The use of 'but' in the sentence negated everything that came before it. What is 'I agree with you, but. . . ' really saying? It's saying, 'I don't agree with you.' <br /><br /> But has the added deficiency of making you sound indecisive or <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/wishy+washy" rel="tag">wishy washy</a>. It takes away the power of what you're saying and lessens your authority, exposing weakness in your conviction. <br /><br /> When persuading the affluent, avoiding this appearance of <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/indecisiveness" rel="tag">indecisiveness</a> is especially important. What's more persuasive--using negating words like 'but', or a more solid statement like, 'I don't agree with you, and here's why'? <br /><br /> Pay attention to others when they use the word 'but'. It may feel like they're not telling you the whole truth, like there is something they've neglected to express. You might get the idea that something else is wrong. 'What else am I not aware of?' Our brains automatically perform something called a trans-dierivational search (TDS) in order to search for what's wrong. We actually attempt to read the mind of the person we think is leaving out information. This usually leaves us assuming they disagree with us. This is the very opposite of rapport. <br /><br /> Not too long ago I noticed a big but. A young starlet was being interviewed before she went to jail. Her sentences were filled with incongruency. At one point where she said (and I'm paraphrasing), 'Well, I feel really bad about what I've done and I'm ready to face the consequences of my actions, but' and then she just trailed off. <br /><br /> But? But what? 'But, I'm beautiful, spoiled, privileged, entitled and I can do whatever I want'? 'But bite me. I'll do whatever I please with no consequences'? See? That's where my TDI search went. I filled in her blank with my own mind reading abilities. I'd wager I'm not too far off on this one. <br /><br /> What people say is what they mean.One of the great secrets to persuasion is reading between the lines. Listening to what people say is your job. 'But' is a perfect example of this. Take a moment to distinguish the actual words and you'll likely be surprised at what they are really saying. <br /><br /> 'But the word 'but' is a hard habit to break. . . ' you might say. There's a really easy way to eliminate 'but' and regain your persuasive power. Simply replace it with 'and'. <br /><br /> Eliminate this: 'I agree with you, but I still think I'm right.' And replace it with, 'I agree with you and I still think I'm right.' Instead of, 'I really want to hire you, but we can't afford what you're asking.' Try, 'I really want to hire you, and we can't afford what you're asking.' <br /><br /> This will give you WAY more credibility when speaking to others. The more congruency and fewer contradictions you make, the more successful you will be at persuasion.   <bio>Kenrick Cleveland teaches techniques to earn the business of affluent clients using persuasion. He runs public and private seminars and offers home study courses and coaching programs in <a href="http://www.maxpersuasion.com" >http://www.maxpersuasion.com</a>  </bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>Stop Divorce 101- How To Cope When Your Spouse Wants A Divorce</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 16 Feb 2007 06:27:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<category>grounds for divorce</category><category>tremendously</category><category>marriage counseling</category><category>shades of gray</category><category>begs the question</category><category>tricky subject</category><category>t draw</category>		<guid>http://www.artwoo.com/article/stop-divorce-101-how-to-cope-when-your-spouse-wants-a-divorce</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Things often fall apart, and the center cannot hold, in the words of Yeats; this rings especially true with marriage. The issue of stopping divorce is a tricky subject to touch on, because, more than problems, it involves one spouse who wants a divorce and another who doesn't. Essentially one]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[Things often fall apart, and the center cannot hold, in the words of Yeats; this rings especially true with marriage. The issue of stopping divorce is a <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/tricky+subject" rel="tag">tricky subject</a> to touch on, because, more than problems, it involves one spouse who wants a divorce and another who doesn't. Essentially one person wants to continue a relationship and the other doesn't; however, there are <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/shades+of+gray" rel="tag">shades of gray</a>, and that's where professional help comes in. <br /><br /> The first thing to do in this situation is to seek professional help, both legal and otherwise. Talk to your spouse and see if they will agree to <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/marriage+counseling" rel="tag">marriage counseling</a>; if they won't, offer a period of separation so they can figure themselves out. <br /><br /> If they do agree to counseling, make sure it's with a reputable person who has helped others in your situation. Counseling can help <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/tremendously" rel="tag">tremendously</a> in many ways. Perhaps it will help you identify problems you weren't aware of, solve issues that have hounded you for years, or simply get a better idea of what's going on in your spouse's head. <br /><br /> This can be the greatest help in coping when your spouse wants a divorce and you don't. And perhaps after, you'll find out you were holding on for all the wrong reasons and agree to the divorce. However, no matter what happens, you will have a better idea of where your spouse stands. <br /><br /> If your spouse still wants a divorce after counseling, don'<a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/t+draw" rel="tag">t draw</a> it out. Be aware that though counseling helps in many cases, in others, it doesn't, and that's when it's time to let go. While it may be tempting to try and hold on as long as possible, it just isn't healthy, especially if you have children. <br /><br /> Most of the time, stopping divorce from going through just isn't possible; you can delay it and go to what's called a 'grounds trial' to try and prove there are no <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/grounds+for+divorce" rel="tag">grounds for divorce</a>, but the simple fact remains that your spouse wants a divorce and you don't. This <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/begs+the+question" rel="tag">begs the question</a> of whether you really want to stay with someone who doesn't want to be with you. <br /><br /> Of course, nothing is ever that cut-and-dried, and that's why seeking professional help is the best way to cope with this situation. If possible, get both couples and individual therapy; it's not cheap, but so worth the tremendous amount of anxiety and heartache you'll either avoid or learn to cope with.   <bio>If you would like to stop divorce please visit <a href="http://www.marriagemax.com/when-to-divorce.asp" >http://www.marriagemax.com/when-to-divorce.asp</a>  </bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>How To Stop Arguments And Fights From Killing Your Relationship (video)</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jun 2007 02:14:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<category>agree to disagree</category><category>escalates</category><category>ego</category><category>life choices</category><category>email</category><category>she likes</category><category>snipes</category>		<guid>http://www.artwoo.com/article/how-to-stop-arguments-and-fights-from-killing-your-relationship-video</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[ Endless fights, arguments, and snipes late into the night...  You've seen it time and time again. Everything is going great, you and your partner love each other dearly, and your relationship couldn't be better. Then, it strikes without warning. Someone says something, the other responds, and it's]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[ Endless fights, arguments, and <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/snipes" rel="tag">snipes</a> late into the night... <br /><br /> You've seen it time and time again. Everything is going great, you and your partner love each other dearly, and your relationship couldn't be better. Then, it strikes without warning. Someone says something, the other responds, and it's on! <br /><br /> What appears to be a simple misunderstanding <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/escalates" rel="tag">escalates</a> into an argument, a fight, and someone ends up sleeping on the couch. Worse yet, one of you starts throwing things, then storms out of the house. Remember the frustration, the anger, the resentment? <br /><br /> Remember how puffed up your <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/ego" rel="tag">ego</a> got? "Yeah, so there!" OK, clearly that didn't go as planned. And you can bet nobody gained anything from that exchange.  What happened? How did a simple question turn into a screaming match? <br /><br /> In your mind, the other person "just doesn't get it". But here's the problem - in their mind, YOU "just don't get it". <br /><br /> And what's even WORSE is having ANY kind of emotional discussion (read: argument) by phone or <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/email" rel="tag">email</a>. NEVER do that if you can avoid it. <br /><br /> So how can this possibly be resolved without endless fighting and eventually maybe even breaking up? <br /><br /> When a "discussion" escalates into an argument, all sense and reason seems to leave the building. At that point, it's all EGO, and going downhill hard. Everybody is getting puffed up trying to one-up the other person by saying something just a little more hurtful in response to what they just heard last. A guaranteed path to achieving nothing useful.  Could you <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/agree+to+disagree" rel="tag">agree to disagree</a>? <br /><br /> Imagine... what if you don't have to win? Really, think about that for a moment. Do you really NEED to win? So what if you disagree? What if you like something, your partner doesn't, and that could just be OK? <br /><br /> Could you agree that on this particular topic, you like red, <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/she+likes" rel="tag">she likes</a> yellow, and you're "both right" when it comes to your own <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/life+choices" rel="tag">life choices</a>. And as partners and friends, you agree to respect each other's decisions. You "agree to disagree". <br /><br /> Suddenly, you don't have to fight. You can be happy together again, and face new days in joy and harmony. How can you achieve this peace? <br /><br /> So here's a question from a gentleman wondering if it's normal to have fights and arguments with his partner. <br /><br /> Dear Dan and Jennifer, <br /><br /> "No relationships are without arguments and quarrels" - Is this true? <br /><br /> =96 Edmund (Singapore) <br /><br /> Watch this short video (<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uiOKTNUn9cA" >http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uiOKTNUn9cA</a>) for our thoughts on this very interesting question=85   <bio>Wait. Get more relationship and dating articles like this one at <a href="http://www.AskDanAndJennifer.com" >http://www.AskDanAndJennifer.com</a>. Get answers to your most pressing questions about Dating, Relationships, Love, and Sex. Copyright 2007 <a href="http://www.AskDanAndJennifer.com" >http://www.AskDanAndJennifer.com</a>   </bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>Cats Bonding With Their Owners</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 08 Nov 2007 02:15:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<category>cats</category><category>jokess</category><category>physical survival</category><category>experts</category><category>bad vibe</category><category>natural instinct</category><category>psychic</category>		<guid>http://www.artwoo.com/article/cats-bonding-with-their-owners</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[ There are a lot of experts out there who say that cats are strictly independent animals. These very same experts state that cats have chosen to associate with humans due to their strategy of survival. Although many argue with this statement, there are many who agree as well =96 although those that]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[ There are a lot of <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/experts" rel="tag">experts</a> out there who say that <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/cats" rel="tag">cats</a> are strictly independent animals. These very same experts state that cats have chosen to associate with humans due to their strategy of survival. Although many argue with this statement, there are many who agree as well =96 although those that agree are normally those in the percentile who don't agree with cats <a href="http://www.<a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/jokess" rel="tag">jokess</a>.info" >http://www.jokess.info</a> <br /><br /> Anyone who has owned a cat will tell you that cats are great at bonding with people, although they are very particular. Normally, a cat will choose someone in the home that he bonds with. You'll know when a cat wants to bond with you, as he will hop on your lap seeking attention or snuggle up to you at night when you are sleeping. Purring is a strong sign of affections, especially with cats that are looking to bond. <br /><br /> Although many experts have tried to figure it out, no one really knows why cats choose a particular person whom they will bond with. It could be the individual's manners, voice, or simply how that person treats the cat. Perhaps it may be the individual is really gentle, or maybe a little more forceful =96 bringing the best out in the cat. <br /><br /> There are a lot of ways that researchers have tried to take this subject, one of which being <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/psychic" rel="tag">psychic</a>. Some say that cats bond with someone due to a "psychic aura" that is compatible with both the person and the cat. If a cat feels that someone is giving them a <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/bad+vibe" rel="tag">bad vibe</a>, they will simply ignore that person. Although this can be true to a sense for some, a majority of those who own cats will tell you that this couldn't be any further from the truth. <br /><br /> Even though there are a lot of theories and speculation out there, no one really knows why cats bond with humans. There's little to no proof available as well, other than cats and their <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/natural+instinct" rel="tag">natural instinct</a> for <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/physical+survival" rel="tag">physical survival</a>. Those who own cats know that cats crave attention, simply to make them feel needed. They love to be pampered by their owners, and will shower you with attention and affection if you just give them the chance. <br /><br /> Those who are new to owning cats may find bonding to be very different. Cats are different from other animals, including dogs, in the sense that they bond different. Different breeds of cats will bond different with their owners, although most prefer affection and attention. The more time you spend around your cat, the more he will bond with you. Over the years, you'll find that the bond you create with your pet has grown very strong =96 and simply cannot be broken.   <bio><a href="http://www.personalss.info" >http://www.personalss.info</a>  </bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>Get Your Ex Back</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2008 05:01:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<category>couple drinks</category><category>girlfriend boyfriend</category><category>don t cry</category><category>honest answers</category><category>lifesavers</category><category>heavy lifting</category><category>true test</category>		<guid>http://www.artwoo.com/article/get-your-ex-back</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Yeah, I know the feeling. Don't fret though! There is a right way and there is a wrong way to try to get your girlfriend, boyfriend or spouse back. You will actually be amazed at this strategy, but let's first just see what you shouldn't do.First, you need to be aware that getting your ex back is]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[Yeah, I know the feeling. Don't fret though! There is a right way and there is a wrong way to try to get your girlfriend, boyfriend or spouse back. You will actually be amazed at this strategy, but let's first just see what you shouldn't do.<br><br>First, you need to be aware that getting your ex back is actually much easier than you think. In fact, I have links to three resources down at the bottom of this article that will help you do just that.<br><br>No <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/heavy+lifting" rel="tag">heavy lifting</a>, no crying, begging, or pleading. Just straight-up <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/honest+answers" rel="tag">honest answers</a> about how to win them back. I hope you'll want to check them out. They really can be a <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/lifesavers" rel="tag">lifesavers</a>.<br><br>So are you guilty of calling the night of the break up and wanting your ex to talk to you, only to have them turn you down?<br><br>Ah ha, thought so!<br><br>How about calling at 2 AM (after a <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/couple+drinks" rel="tag">couple drinks</a>), professing your love for them and the fact that you cannot live without them?<br><br>Oh no, this is like the biggest mistake!<br><br>All you are doing is pushing them further away and making them not want anything to do with you ever. These are things that you should never do as it will always make matters worse for the both of you -- if there was ever that chance of getting back together, don't ruin it with these childish behaviors.<br><br>Don't ever act desperate and beg them to come back. If they don't cry because you are driving them absolutely crazy, they'll probably laugh at you and just how ridiculous you are acting.<br><br>Let it go. Yes, this is the first step. Why?<br><br>People will always want what they can't have. So now that they have broken it off with you, the best thing to do is agree with them. For one, they will be totally shocked. Not only that, they will almost automatically start seeing all the things that they love about you.<br><br>Send them a short and sweet little note agreeing with the break up. This is really the <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/true+test" rel="tag">true test</a>. If they have any love or desire for you, this is their cue to start making amends. They may not do it right away, but they definitely will in time. That is, of course, if there are any feelings left to do so.<br><br>Always go with the flow and agree with them. To not agree is just going to cause a fight and all you are doing is making it worse. You never sound desperate in hopes to saving your own heart. You must let them go so that they can see if there is anything left there.<br><br>You can truly feel whether or not someone has let go. When this happens, it is easier to see where your heart stands. It may not always be easy to let go but it will definitely save a lot of heartache.<br><br>Doing it today may bring them back into your arms tomorrow. Sometimes we must let someone fly just to appreciate the fact that they were our angel in the first place.<bio>These are the best guides to getting your ex back. This explanation of how to <a href="http://www.scribd.com/doc/3918261/Get-Ex-Back">get an ex back</a> is the best in my opinion. You should also read this <a href="http://www.squidoo.com/how_to_get_ex_back">get your ex back</a> article, and check out this <a href="http://howtogetexback.weebly.com/">get my ex back</a> site. Hope that helps!</bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>How To Resolve Dating Conflicts</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 24 Oct 2006 14:27:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<category>belief system</category><category>relationship</category><category>dating</category><category>resolve</category><category>conflict</category><category>race and religion</category><category>disappointed</category>		<guid>http://www.artwoo.com/article/how-to-resolve-dating-conflicts</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Conflict is a fact of life, and those who expect to have the perfect relationship will often find themselves disappointed.  When you go on a date, it is important to be able to resolve any conflicts that may occur. Two of the most common conflicts that occur on dates deal with race and religion. If]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/conflict" rel="tag">Conflict</a> is a fact of life, and those who expect to have the perfect <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/relationship" rel="tag">relationship</a> will often find themselves <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/disappointed" rel="tag">disappointed</a>. <br /><br /> When you go on a date, it is important to be able to <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/resolve" rel="tag">resolve</a> any conflicts that may occur. Two of the most common conflicts that occur on dates deal with <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/race+and+religion" rel="tag">race and religion</a>. If you are <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/dating" rel="tag">dating</a> a person that follows a different faith than you, it is important to realize that they will have a <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/belief+system" rel="tag">belief system</a> that may dramatically differ from your own. Both you and the person you're dating must have an open mind. If you do not, this will cause problems that can not only make the date unpleasant, but it can also stop the relationship from progressing. <br /><br /> The same conflicts can occur among partners who come from different racial or cultural backgrounds. To resolve any conflict that you may encounter on a date, it is first important to have an open mind. Pushing your belief system on another person is an immature form of behavior, and it is something you will want to avoid at all costs. As you date someone, they may make a comment or a statement that you don't agree with. How you respond to it is very important. If you are too harsh or blunt, you may hurt the feelings of the other person. If your date states that they feel a certain way about an issue, ask them why they feel this way. <br /><br /> Asking them this is much more mature than saying "I don't agree with you," or "that doesn't make any sense." More often than not, an individual will elaborate on an opinion they have. You can tell them that you understand why they would feel that way, but you're not sure you agree. You can then elaborate on the previous sentence to explain why. The best way to avoid conflicts on dates is to be open with the person you are dating. Don't be so set in your way of life that you are unwilling to look at things from the perspective of another person. When you behave in this way, you will limit yourself, and you may lose out on an opportunity to build a strong relationship. <br /><br /> No matter what the differences are between you and your date, you should look past these differences and focus on what the two of you have in common. This can allow you to build a strong relationship.   <bio>Ron Zvagelsky has a degree in Business Administration from the University of Southern California. He graduated Magna Cum Laude in May 2006. He is currently the Chief Executive Officer of PlanJam -- an interactive website offering <a href="http://www.planjam.com/weblog" >http://www.planjam.com/weblog</a> </bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>What Type Of Loan Do You Have?</title>
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				<pubDate>Wed, 16 Aug 2006 00:27:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<category>unsecured loans</category><category>secured loans</category><category>payday loans</category><category>car loans</category><category>mortgage loans</category><category>student loans</category><category>holiday loans</category>		<guid>http://www.artwoo.com/article/what-type-of-loan-do-you-have</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Britons' today are borrowing more money than at any other time in our history. With such huge sums being borrowed on personal credit, UK banks are acutely aware of the potential for huge profits. However, unlike the days of past, in today's market banks need to be ever more innovative with the]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[Britons' today are borrowing more money than at any other time in our history. With such huge sums being borrowed on personal credit, UK banks are acutely aware of the potential for huge profits. However, unlike the days of past, in today's market banks need to be ever more innovative with the marketing of their loan schemes if they're going to have any chance of capturing your potential loan business. So, what type of UK loan do you have? <br /><br /> Nearly every single loan in the UK will still fall within one of two very broad classifications -- what is known as a 'secured' loan, or, alternatively, an 'unsecured' loan. With a secured loan, you, as the borrower, agree to provide the bank, as the lender, with security to give the bank some assurance that they'll be repaid the money you borrow. Generally, in exchange for agreeing to give the bank this security, the bank will agree to offer you a marginally lower rate of interest on the borrowing than you would otherwise have been charged on an unsecured loan. As such, the traditional types of <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/secured+loans" rel="tag">secured loans</a> you'll find on offer include home <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/mortgage+loans" rel="tag">mortgage loans</a>, home improvement loans, re-mortgage loans, home equity withdrawal loans, and, in some cases, <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/car+loans" rel="tag">car loans</a>. Just as all of these can be unsecured (although in some cases, such as a home mortgage loan, this would be rare), it's also possible to have a secured loan that doesn't exactly fit any of these either. <br /><br /> Unlike secured loans, with an unsecured loan you do not agree to give security over an asset in return for borrowing money from the bank. As such, if you fail to repay the loan, the bank effectively risks losing all of the money it lent to you. Because of this, the bank will normally charge higher rates of interest on an unsecured loan. Also, in most cases, the amount being lent to you is smaller than you can usually borrow with a secured loan. Typical types of <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/unsecured+loans" rel="tag">unsecured loans</a> include the standard personal loan, <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/holiday+loans" rel="tag">holiday loans</a>, <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/student+loans" rel="tag">student loans</a>, <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/payday+loans" rel="tag">payday loans</a>, and, in some cases, debt consolidation loans. <br /><br /> While the general parameters of what constitutes a loan remain the same, what is changing on an almost daily basis is the names being given to these loans as banks try various different ways for you to sign up to their latest loan promotion. And this is one practice that banks have implement that you can be sure will not change in the near future. But before you agree to complete the UK loan application form, take the time to make sure you know whether you've just signed up for a secured or unsecured loan, as this could have a very important impact on what happens if you're ever in the position where you cannot repay the loan.   <bio>Joe Kenny writes for the UK personal finance sites <a href="http://www.ukpersonalloanstore.co.uk" >http://www.ukpersonalloanstore.co.uk</a> and also <a href="http://www.cardguide.co.uk" >http://www.cardguide.co.uk</a> </bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>Breast Cancer And The Pain Of The Mammogram</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 04 Nov 2006 14:27:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<category>breast cancer</category><category>cancer of the breast</category><category>breast tissue</category><category>cancer survivor</category><category>medicinenet</category><category>quot</category><category>mammogram</category>		<guid>http://www.artwoo.com/article/breast-cancer-and-the-pain-of-the-mammogram</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Just tune into a select cable channel and keep watching long enough and you're likely to see a predictable show about women overcoming obstacles and being triumphant. The situation could take place in the workplace, bad or abussive marriage, sports, or the legal system. Or any of another hundred]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[Just tune into a select cable channel and keep watching long enough and you're likely to see a predictable show about women overcoming obstacles and being triumphant. The situation could take place in the workplace, bad or abussive marriage, sports, or the legal system. Or any of another hundred siturations. Including having beed diagnosed with <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/breast+cancer" rel="tag">breast cancer</a>. <br /><br /> The fact is that there are millions of women who have been diagnosed with breast cancer and are now celebrating two, five or even 30+ years of being cancer free. <br /><br /> What do they owe this to? If you ask a <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/cancer+survivor" rel="tag">cancer survivor</a>, the chances are she'll tell you that early detection was the key. And the <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/mammogram" rel="tag">mammogram</a> is the technology we use most often today to detect <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/cancer+of+the+breast" rel="tag">cancer of the breast</a>. <br /><br /> When should the test be done? Experts generally agree that if you have seen your 40th birthday, you should be tested at least every two years. Sometimes more often, especially if you have a family history of breast cancer. What about sooner? Well, I say: why not? What have you got to lose by early detection? Well maybe some discomfort, but women generally agree that it's worth it. More information about cancer can be found at <a href="http://www.icancerfree.com" >http://www.icancerfree.com</a> . <br /><br /> If you have never experienced a mammogram, here's an idea of what to expect. According to the web site <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/medicinenet" rel="tag">MedicineNet</a>, and<a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/quot" rel="tag">quot</a>;The patient's breasts are then placed on a firm flat X-ray surface and a gentle, but firm pressure is applied to the breast using a mommogram compression device. This compression can cause a degree of discomfort in some women, but it is usually a painless procedure. The compression spreads the <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/breast+tissue" rel="tag">breast tissue</a> out so that the X-rays display the inner breast tissue with good reslolution. If compression is not used, the mammograms may be blurry, breast tissue may not be well delineated and small lesions can be missed.andquot; <br /><br /> andquot;Gentle, but firm pressureandquot;? Interesting way of putting it, isn't it? <br /><br /> Anyway, while there may be some discomfort, don't you agree that that is a small price to pay to have the security and knowledge that your are cancer free? And if, God forbid, you're not, to know so you can take immediate action?  <bio>Yvonne Volante, the author, is a big fan of good health practices and writes for icancerfree.com, which is the premier cancer resource on the internet. You can see all of the articles over at <a href="http://www.icancerfree.com" >http://www.icancerfree.com</a> </bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>Loving Those Who Disagree, Criticize Or Do Not Understand Us</title>
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				<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jul 2007 23:29:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<category>self worth</category><category>intimidated</category><category>love</category><category>family nation</category><category>good person</category><category>feel safe</category><category>perceptions</category>		<guid>http://www.artwoo.com/article/loving-those-who-disagree-criticize-or-do-not-understand-us</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[ Let us deal first with the issue of when others do not understand me.  We may have difficulty loving those who do not understand us because we are controlled by the following beliefs:  a. If I were a good person, they would understand me. b. I need others to understand me in order to feel safe,]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[ Let us deal first with the issue of when others do not understand me. <br /><br /> We may have difficulty loving those who do not understand us because we are controlled by the following beliefs:  a. If I were a <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/good+person" rel="tag">good person</a>, they would understand me.<br /><br /> b. I need others to understand me in order to <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/feel+safe" rel="tag">feel safe</a>, secure and <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/love" rel="tag">love</a>d.  c. I am safe only when others accept and understand me.  d. People understand me when they agree with me. <br /><br /> Note: There are differences between understanding, agreeing, being interested and complying. This point is interesting, when people say, "you do not understand me", what they often mean, "you do not agree with me, are not interested in my needs, or do what I want you to do." These are three entirely different realities. One is to understand what someone is saying or needing. Another is to agree with them and another still to be able, be interested enough or want or choose to give them or do what they want. <br /><br /> It turns out that we often lose our love, not because the other does not understand us, but because we believe that they do not agree, are not interested or are not willing or able to give us what we want. Just as we want to be loved when we cannot agree with others or comply with their needs, others need us to love them when they cannot accommodate our beliefs or needs. <br /><br /> We tend to feel <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/intimidated" rel="tag">intimidated</a> and lose our love when others do not agree with us or criticize or reject us or our loved family, nation, religion or other grouping. We tend to believe that our self-worth depends on what others think about us or about the group we identify with. We then feel the need to protect our self-worth from others' differing opinions or criticism. <br /><br /> We need their approval in order to feel our self-worth and become defensive and even aggressive when we feel our self-worth being "intimidated." This is increased when we are programmed to believe there can be only one right way and all other <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/perceptions" rel="tag">perceptions</a> and systems are wrong. We fear that if the others are right, then we must be wrong. <br /><br /> We will be affected by differing opinions and criticism to the degree that we doubt ourselves and others with whom we are identified. It is interesting that fanaticism is born from self-doubt. When we are secure in what we believe, we are not intimidated by criticism or differing perceptions. We do not need to prove anything to the others. We do not need to answer to them. We answer only to our conscience. We feel secure being different and even rejected when we feel in harmony with ourselves and our inner values. <br /><br /> This does not mean that we do not care about others, their needs, feelings or beliefs. We love them and care for them, listen to them, evaluate what they have to say, because they might be right and we might have much to gain by listening to them. In fact they are the "divine" itself speaking to us at that moment. The question is whether our lesson is to listen to them and change something about ourselves, our beliefs or lifestyle, or whether it is to continue to love them, while we follow our inner voice which is different from theirs. <br /><br /> We can do this much more easily when we feel safe within ourselves even when we are different from others and do not need their approval. When we fear that we will lose others=82 love if we are different, do not have their approval or do not heed their suggestions, we develop an unnecessary inner negativity - supposedly to protect ourselves from this imaginary danger of disagreement or criticism. <br /><br /> If we feel secure within ourselves, we will listen and gently and loving explain that we are grateful for and respect their comments and perceptions and that we will think about what they have said, but will eventually have to live by our own inner values and beliefs. <br /><br /> In the end we can agree to disagree and love each other even though we do not agree. We are letting go of agreement as a prerequisite to love. <br /><br /> Our ability to do so will depend on the degree to which we ourselves are free from the need to criticize or disagree with others - perhaps in order to "protect" our self-worth, security, control or freedom. In some cases we may need to realize that a grouping with which we have identified ourselves (our church, government or other grouping), may in fact not be functioning well and may be attracting justified criticism. <br /><br /> Note: When we say let go of needing approval from others and follow our conscience, it does not mean that we believe that we are perfect, superior or without faults or mistakes or aspects that need to be improved. It simply means that we understand that all beings are in a process of evolution and that we are worthy of being loved even though we make mistakes and are not perfect. This does not mean that we stop seeking to improve our behavior, choices and actions. We continue to observe and improve ourselves, while all the time realizing that we and all others are worthy of being loved and respected as we are in our present state of evolution. <br /><br /> Employing this philosophy requires that we do the same for others and love and respect them with their faults, weaknesses and mistakes at this stage of their evolutionary process. When we can do so, it will be easier for us to feel comfortable and loving even in the face of criticism and differing opinions.   <bio>Robert Elias Najemy, a life coach with 30 years of experience, is the author of over 20 books, 600 articles and 400 lectures on Human Harmony. Download wonderful ebooks, 100's of free articles, courses, and mp3 audio lectures at <a href="http://www.HolisticHarmony.com" >http://www.HolisticHarmony.com</a>. Find 8 of his books at <a href="http://www.Amazon.com" >http://www.Amazon.com</a>.   </bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>Poor Negotiation Skills: Lose Your Shirt In 7 Days</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 02 Aug 2007 21:15:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ I've seen intelligent folks negotiated out of a great bargain, denied of a critical bank loan, flunk at an IPO road show and even kicked out of their houses by their spouses.  Just for one reason.  They simply can't meet halfway. The negotiation starts with both parties neither yielding nor]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/" rel="tag"></a> I've seen intelligent folks negotiated out of a great bargain, denied of a critical bank loan, flunk at an IPO road show and even kicked out of their houses by their spouses. <br /><br /> Just for one reason. <br /><br /> They simply can't meet halfway. The negotiation starts with both parties neither yielding nor accomodating. Each one is simply preoccuppied with getting the most out of the negotiation encounter. <br /><br /> Poor negotiation skills lead to misunderstanding, then suspicion, then ultimately withdrawal. It's the fastest way to lose not just your shirt - but your associates and friends. <br /><br /> I've discovered four top negotiation skills that can make your next negotiation encounter a more satisfying one. <br /><br /> 1. Never open with your position. Ask the other side, "So what would your offer be?" This way you keep your needs private and could bargain up or down based on what your negotiation sparring partners disclose. <br /><br /> 2. Always come to the table with a focused outcome. If you know exactly what you want, you'll know how to drive the negotiation within those parameters. Unfortunately, many folks come to the table not even having an inkling as to what they desire. So they get frustrated each time an off-the-hat suggestion gets rebuffed. <br /><br /> 3. Learn to elicit critieria and to match that criteria. In NLP, if you can find the other side's heirarchy of values by asking "What's important to you about xxx"" at least thrice, you can find the underlying reasons for their proposals. Discover this, then you can easily and naturally tailor fit your suggestions to what they truly want. <br /><br /> 4. Agree agree agree. At the onset and the middle part of the negotiation, you will naturally find it to your benefit to minimize blatant disagreement. Avoid the temptation to slam down fists and disagree because you feel it makes you look dominant. Rather, listen quietly, taken an open posture, smile, and couch your negations in rephrased statements that illuminate the beauty of your counter proposals. <br /><br /> Superb negotiation skills are built on this foundation. Develop them and you'll happily discover more fulfilling outcomes.   <bio>More of Joseph Plazo's killer articles <a href="http://www.xtrememind.com" >http://www.xtrememind.com</a> <a href="http://www.powerconsultants.net" >http://www.powerconsultants.net</a> <a href="http://www.jobcentralasia.com" >http://www.jobcentralasia.com</a>  </bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>When Is Google Adsense A Good Addition For Your</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jun 2006 09:32:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<category>google adsense</category><category>blog</category><category>thing to remember</category><category>advertising</category><category>pornographic material</category><category>annoying</category><category>ads</category>		<guid>http://www.artwoo.com/article/when-is-google-adsense-a-good-addition-for-your</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Trying to make a living from your blog is a great idea if you are up for a challenge. Some articles will make it seem like a piece of cake to sit back and watch the dough roll in. The truth is that making money from your blog takes time and effort on your part. There are a few things that can make]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[Trying to make a living from your <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/blog" rel="tag">blog</a> is a great idea if you are up for a challenge. Some articles will make it seem like a piece of cake to sit back and watch the dough roll in. The truth is that making money from your blog takes time and effort on your part. There are a few things that can make your task a little easier however. <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/google+<a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/ads" rel="tag">ads</a>ense" rel="tag">Google Adsense</a> is one of those things for many. If you are curious about whether or not Google Adsense is right for your blog, take a look at these characteristics of their <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/advertising" rel="tag">advertising</a> program. <br /><br /> The first thing to consider when looking for a program like Google Adsense is their track record. You can rest assured that Adsense is the oldest program of its type. It has the largest base of publishers than any other program like it. Knowing this information, you can feel secure in becoming a member of their program. By using Adsense, you will know that you are in good hands of a company that certainly knows what they are doing. <br /><br /> Another thing to consider when signing up with an advertising program is the appearance of the program on your blog. You don't want to sign up with a program that has <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/annoying" rel="tag">annoying</a> flashy ads that will scare people off from your site. Adsense provides ads that are mostly text. They have around 10 different sizes with various dimensions so you can place them in the most appropriate places on your blog, without sacrificing your content and overall site appearance. If there is an image advertisement run in your advertising space, it typically fills up the whole ad block and is less annoying than most. <br /><br /> One <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/thing+to+remember" rel="tag">thing to remember</a> when considering Google Adsense is that they have strict terms of service. While some may see them as being too restrictive, they are not abnormal by any means. Basically to be an approved Adsense member you must agree not to publish <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/pornographic+material" rel="tag">pornographic material</a> or coversation on your blog. You need to keep it pretty family friendly. This is not a huge problem for most people. Also you are not allowed to change the Adsense code. <br /><br /> Another portion of the terms of service explains that those who agree also cannot specify keywords that ads will be pointed to. You pretty much surrender the choosing of the ads to Google when you agree with their terms. You may have control over the content of your blog, but they have control over the ad content. Lastly, if you work with the Adsense program, you must agree to have no more than three blocks of ads on one particular page. If you are looking for a program that also allows you to see which pages earn more for you than others, Adsense is a great fit. Some programs will not allow you to do this, so if you are interested in this option, Adsense is a great choice. <br /><br /> Again, Adsense is based on the context of your page. Whatever you allow on your page will have an effect over what type of ads are presented to your readers. Keep this in mind when you are posting on your blog. With Adsense you cannot afford to hide your main points within a bundle of text. You have to be clear and use defining vocabulary to ensure your ads will fit just right. <br /><br /> If you are a blogger who would love to get paid for referring others to a program like Google Adsense, then you will be glad to know that for each referral you have that signs up and earns $100, you will get $100 as well. This can be great for someone with many contacts or a blog building business. Overall, there are quite a few rules that you must agree to follow in order to become an Adsense publisher. The rules are not so restrictive so that you cannot make money. In fact, they are made so that the Google reputation is preserved and yours as well. By using an honest system such as Adsense, you will know that you are in the best possible position out there. You can make a bundle if you put in the time, so go ahead and check it out today.   <bio>Finally! You Can Start Profiting From One Of The Hottest Types Of Products Available In All Of The Internet...And Have Your Business Up And Running In A Matter Of Hours! <a href="http://www.resellrightsguru.com">http://www.resellrightsguru.com</a> You may reproduce this article as long as an active hyperlink is accompanied. </bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>Find The Right Baby Name Easily</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 22 Sep 2007 12:15:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<category>baby names</category><category>gender</category><category>have decided that</category><category>luckily</category><category>list of names</category><category>keep writing</category><category>word meaning</category>		<guid>http://www.artwoo.com/article/find-the-right-baby-name-easily</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[ The task for finding the right name for your child is very important because in the end the result will affect your child through all of his or her life and this often means 70 years or more. The responsibility that you have on your hands are therefore a great one so do what most people do and]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[ The task for finding the right name for your child is very important because in the end the result will affect your child through all of his or her life and this often means 70 years or more. The responsibility that you have on your hands are therefore a great one so do what most people do and spend some time thinking and planning before deciding. <br /><br /> If you have been at your doctor's office you might already have been told what the <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/gender" rel="tag">gender</a> of your baby is and that makes the job of finding the perfect name so much easier because it will instantly cut the list into half. Now that is what is called working effectively! But seriously, knowing the gender will help you get on track faster and thereby save you time to make the right decision. <br /><br /> If you are a couple and you <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/have+decided+that" rel="tag">have decided that</a> you will need to agree on what to name your child the process will often be a little though because there are many emotions involved. <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/luckily" rel="tag">Luckily</a> it is all about negotiation and in the end you will have to agree. However it is seen that some couples will actually name their child several names because they couldn't agree. This has shown to provide some combinations that are more rare than brilliant. <br /><br /> If you have no clue where to start the process it is advised to start by writing a <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/list+of+names" rel="tag">list of names</a> that you think are cute, strong, feminine, masculine (depending on the gender of your child) and <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/keep+writing" rel="tag">keep writing</a> until you are out of ideas. It often helps to put things onto paper because if will free the creativity of the mind and eventually it will have you come up with even more <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/baby+names" rel="tag">baby names</a>. <br /><br /> When you can not find even one more name to put on the list the next step is to go online to find lists of baby names that can be used for inspiration. You will find thousands upon thousands of baby names online but before you start the search you need to think of what you want to find. Do you feel that the meaning of the name of your baby is important then be sure to include the word "meaning" into your search terms! <br /><br /> If meaning is not important but geography is then include then country name for which you want to find a name. Today search statistics show that Irish baby boy names are very popular, but that might not be for you. You might believe that Jewish names or biblical names are appropriate and you will therefore need to remember that when searching for a baby name. <br /><br /> There are many sites online giving you ideas and tips but in the end the decision is yours (and your partners). When you have a list that is long enough start sorting it with the best names first. When the list is sorted delete anything below the first ten names. Then put the list of those ten names up a place where you will see it every day and spend some time every time you pass it to think and feel what will be right for your baby. <br /><br /> This little trick will have one name come to you and when your child is born the name you have chosen will be the perfect name for your child and your child will eventually love you for it.   <bio>More baby names at <a href="http://www.unique-baby-footprint.com/" >http://www.unique-baby-footprint.com/</a>  </bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>What You Must Never Seek To Do When Choosing Bridesmaids Dresses?</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 16 Feb 2007 20:27:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<category>bridesmaids dresses</category><category>lime green</category><category>bar none</category><category>aquamarine</category><category>skin tones</category><category>valentines day card</category><category>fuschia</category>		<guid>http://www.artwoo.com/article/what-you-must-never-seek-to-do-when-choosing-bridesmaids-dresses</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Bar none, the most important thing you shouldn't do when choosing dresses for your bridesmaids is pick the ugliest dress you find to cut costs. This leads to unhappy bridesmaids who will look like it in your wedding pictures. Not to mention aggravating your friends is not the best way to have the]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/bar+none" rel="tag">Bar none</a>, the most important thing you shouldn't do when choosing dresses for your bridesmaids is pick the ugliest dress you find to cut costs. This leads to unhappy bridesmaids who will look like it in your wedding pictures. Not to mention aggravating your friends is not the best way to have the perfect day. They may pretend they don't mind, but think about it, would you want to wear something you absolutely hated and have your picture taken in it? Your bridesmaids can be beautiful without outshining you and in any case if you happen to have a friend who is prettier than you are, you will outshine her without a doubt because happiness lends beauty. <br /><br /> Ugly dresses extend to ugly colored dresses so all those <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/fuschia" rel="tag">fuschia</a>, magenta, <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/lime+green" rel="tag">lime green</a>, teal, <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/aquamarine" rel="tag">aquamarine</a>, burnt orange etcetera are all out. Don't even glance at them regardless of how pretty they are to you, unless you know for sure they compliment your bridesmaids <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/skin+tones" rel="tag">skin tones</a> and honestly, no one looks good in lime green or fuschia. <br /><br /> Be sure to avoid ruffles, bows and hearts, there's enough love between you and your groom to be, don't make your wedding look like a kindergartener's <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/valentines+day+card" rel="tag">valentines day card</a>. Subtle works just as well as or even better than overt sometimes. Stay away from sequins, no one needs to have a show girl as a bridesmaid, they make for tacky wedding pictures. <br /><br /> Look for simple <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/bridesmaids+dresses" rel="tag">bridesmaids dresses</a> and don't go overboard on the embellishments or embroidery, too much can be overwhelming. Choose a color that compliments the complexion of all your bridesmaids, pastels work nicely for almost all skin tones and simple dresses do well for almost all body types. <br /><br /> Never choose bridesmaids dresses that you yourself wouldn't wear but don't allow yourself to be pulled in all directions by your bridesmaids either. They can have their opinion but if they can't all agree on the same dress initially then take their preferences into consideration when choosing a dress but ultimately it is your decision to veto or accept a dress. What you can do if everyone can't agree on a dress and you feel like you absolutely need to cater to everyone, have them all agree on a color and allow them to get different dresses in the same color as all your other bridesmaids. Remember that this is your wedding and while these rules are helpful ultimately it's your decision so make yourself happy above all else as you won't have another special day like this again.   <bio>Find more great tips and ideas on dressing at <a href="http://www.allaboutdresses.net" >http://www.allaboutdresses.net</a> a website offering tips, advice and resources on topics such as bridesmaids dresses, dresses by Jennifer Lopez, shopping for a bridal dress and even modern prom dresses. </bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>What Is Your Dream Wedding?</title>
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				<pubDate>Fri, 20 Oct 2006 04:27:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<category>walking down the aisle</category><category>parents</category><category>dream wedding</category><category>down the aisle</category><category>scuba diving</category><category>traditional wedding</category><category>wedding planning</category>		<guid>http://www.artwoo.com/article/what-is-your-dream-wedding</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Now that you are engaged it is time for you and your fiancée to sit down and discuss what kind of wedding you two envision. Just because you love each other, it doesn't mean that you agree on what kind of wedding would be your dream wedding.  If you have always dreamed of being the princess walking]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[Now that you are engaged it is time for you and your fiancée to sit down and discuss what kind of wedding you two envision. Just because you love each other, it doesn't mean that you agree on what kind of wedding would be your <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/dream+wedding" rel="tag">dream wedding</a>. <br /><br /> If you have always dreamed of being the princess <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/walking+down+the+aisle" rel="tag">walking <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/down+the+aisle" rel="tag">down the aisle</a></a> treated like royalty, a <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/traditional+wedding" rel="tag">traditional wedding</a> is for you. But, if your fiancée wants to get married <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/scuba+diving" rel="tag">scuba diving</a> instead, you two have a lot to talk about. Even though you two may not agree, you have to keep discussing your options. Many grooms don't want to be bothered with <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/wedding+planning" rel="tag">wedding planning</a> because they are not heard. If you want your fiancée to get involve, treat him like an equal and the help and feedback you receive may surprise you. <br /><br /> Whatever your decision may be you two have to feel good about it. Your wedding should be personalized to your desires. You two have to communicate clearly and openly about what is your dream wedding and why. You two have a common goal that is to get married, how you get there is your decision. Make a list of ideas that are important for you and see how you can incorporate them into your wedding day. Before you start working on the details, you should individually write down the most important ideas to make sure neither one of you is pressured into omitting anything important. <br /><br /> Throughout history, many of the decisions about the details of the wedding were up to the <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/parents" rel="tag">parents</a>. Today, while parents are usually part of the process, they are not decision makers. If you want your parents to pay for your wedding, you are going to have to give them a lot more decision-making power than if you and your fiancée are paying for everything. <br /><br /> Once you get married you will become a team, so it makes sense to work as team planning your wedding. There are good and dysfunctional teams; you have the power to become an effective team. Regardless, the size or style of your wedding, you and your fiancée has to work together. The more effective you work together, the more fun you will have planning your big day.   <bio>Author: George Meszaros with <a href="http://www.americasbridalshop.com" >http://www.americasbridalshop.com</a> </bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>Before The Wedding: Some Advice For The Groom</title>
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				<pubDate>Thu, 28 Feb 2008 11:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<category>marriage bonus</category><category>stag party</category><category>rule of thumb</category><category>wedding articles</category><category>virtual beer</category><category>bonus points</category><category>off chance</category>		<guid>http://www.artwoo.com/article/before-the-wedding-some-advice-for-the-groom</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[ Most of the time when you come across articles on weddings, they are meant to be read by the bride. Even when the articles make an attempt at addressing both bride and groom, the real audience is fairly obvious, and it is not the man.  Now there are a couple of reasons for this. The first is the]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[ Most of the time when you come across articles on weddings, they are meant to be read by the bride. Even when the articles make an attempt at addressing both bride and groom, the real audience is fairly obvious, and it is not the man. <br /><br /> Now there are a couple of reasons for this. The first is the general cultural perception that grooms don't really care about the wedding. Speaking from personal experience and from observing most of my friends get married, I can say that this is far from the truth. <br /><br /> Another reason why not many <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/wedding+articles" rel="tag">wedding articles</a> are written for the groom is that men just do not tend to look for advice, or listen to it when it is given. And they are far less likely to do so when the advice is in written form! Still, there are some things that a groom should think about as the big day approaches. On the <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/off+chance" rel="tag">off chance</a> that some guy might read this, we are going to present the advice in point form, and there will be <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/virtual+beer" rel="tag">virtual beer</a> and chips at the end. <br /><br /> * The <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/stag+party" rel="tag">stag party</a>. A good <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/rule+of+thumb" rel="tag">rule of thumb</a> here is that if she isn't going to do it for her party, don't do it for yours. You know what I am talking about here; strippers. Even is she says she doesn't mind odds are that she does a little bit. If she isn't going to see strippers, you shouldn't either. <br /><br /> * Planning. Your job is to be there during as much of the planning stage as you can. I don't think I have ever, in ten years of marriage, earned as many "<a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/marriage+bonus" rel="tag">marriage bonus</a> points" as I did the day I met with my bride to be and her sisters and decorated our invitations. I am developmentally challenged in the scissors area and hate glitter, but a few hours of incompetence got me out of a lot of early trouble I am sure. <br /><br /> * Offering your opinion. Most of the time you really will agree with whatever she wants to do for the wedding. The trick is convincing her that you are telling the truth, and that you are listening. One good line, when you come under suspicion, is "I really do agree though. I think that is probably one of the reasons why we are so perfect for each other. We are on the same wave length most of the time!". <br /><br /> * Speak up. There will be times during the planning process where you might not agree with the direction things are taking. It's important to let her know what you really think; just try not to do it where it might seem as though you are "siding" with someone else. This is also good practice for after you tie the knot. <br /><br /> * The wedding day. A commercial for Moore's has said it better than anything I have ever thought of or heard. "On that special day, all eyes will be on her. But she will only be looking at you." Face it, you are the one about to make her dream come true. It's a pretty heavy responsibility but somewhere along the line you realized that she is worth it. Look at her and give her a smile that says you could not be happier.   <bio>Leslie consults for a wedding favors shop also offering bridesmaid and groomsmen gifts. <a href="http://www.giftsandotherwise.com" >http://www.giftsandotherwise.com</a> , <a href="http://www.giftsandotherwise.com/shop/bridesmaids-gifts--gifts-for-her-c-24" >http://www.giftsandotherwise.com/shop/bridesmaids-gifts--gifts-for-her-c-24</a>= 9.html , <a href="http://www.giftsandotherwise.com/shop/groomsmen-gifts--gifts-for-him-c-250" >http://www.giftsandotherwise.com/shop/groomsmen-gifts--gifts-for-him-c-250</a>.= html  </bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>Credit After Bankruptcy - Getting A Mortgage With Seller Financing</title>
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				<pubDate>Mon, 07 Aug 2006 18:27:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<category>mortgage loan</category><category>traditional mortgage</category><category>credit score</category><category>homebuyer</category><category>loan term</category><category>real estate attorney</category><category>bankruptcy</category>		<guid>http://www.artwoo.com/article/credit-after-bankruptcy-getting-a-mortgage-with-seller-financing</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[After a bankruptcy, getting approved for a mortgage loan is possible. However, those who apply for a mortgage should anticipate higher rates. To avoid this common pitfall, many choose to delay buying a home until their credit score increases. If you are eager to buy a home, there are other options]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[After a <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/bankruptcy" rel="tag">bankruptcy</a>, getting approved for a <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/mortgage+loan" rel="tag">mortgage loan</a> is possible. However, those who apply for a mortgage should anticipate higher rates. To avoid this common pitfall, many choose to delay buying a home until their <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/credit+score" rel="tag">credit score</a> increases. If you are eager to buy a home, there are other options available that may not involve high interest rates. <br /><br /> What is Seller Financing? <br /><br /> If attempting to get a home loan after bankruptcy, it is helpful to establish credit beforehand. This may include getting approved for a secured credit card or obtaining an auto loan. By doing so, you will increase your odds of getting approved for a reasonable rate mortgage. <br /><br /> Of course, there is always the option of seller financing. Also known as owner financing, this methods entails the new <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/homebuyer" rel="tag">homebuyer</a> making payments to the seller, and not a bank. This way, the homebuyer does not have to undergo the hassle of trying to get approved for a mortgage loan. With seller financing, the person selling the home establishes the interest, terms, and payments. <br /><br /> How Does Seller Financing Work? <br /><br /> If a homebuyer and seller agree to seller financing, consulting a <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/real+estate+attorney" rel="tag">real estate attorney</a> is essential. To ensure that nobody gets the raw end of the deal, specific terms must be established, and a contract signed. <br /><br /> Seller financing is ideal for self-employed people and those with poor credit. Self-employed individuals have a difficult time proving their income. Thus, it may be harder for them to get traditional financing. On the same line of thought, those with bad credit may need time to boost their credit rating before applying for a <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/traditional+mortgage" rel="tag">traditional mortgage</a> loan. <br /><br /> With seller financing, the home seller will agree to finance the home for a specific length of time. The <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/loan+term" rel="tag">loan term</a> for seller financing are much shorter than traditional loan terms. On average, the seller will finance the home for five to seven years. At the end of the loan term, the buyer will agree to pay the seller a balloon payment. This allows the home buyer enough time to rebuild their credit and qualify for a loan with a mortgage lender. <br /><br /> Upon the conclusion of the seller financing agreement, the homebuyer must make a balloon payment to satisfy the agreement. The balloon payment is financed with a traditional mortgage lender. Thus, the original seller receives their money for the home, and the buyer begins making payments to the new lender.  <bio>Go to <a href="http://www.abcloanguide.com/mortgageafterbankruptcy.shtml" >http://www.abcloanguide.com/mortgageafterbankruptcy.shtml</a><br /><br />for more information on Bankruptcy and Buying a Home. </bio>]]></content:encoded>
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				<title>Diy Divorce</title>
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				<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jun 2006 09:32:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<category>grounds for divorce</category><category>divorce lawyers</category><category>solicitor</category><category>http</category><category>obviously</category><category>htm</category><category>dependant</category>		<guid>http://www.artwoo.com/article/diy-divorce</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[You don't necessarily need a solicitor or lawyer to manage your divorce if it is uncontested, i.e. you and your spouse agree to the divorce, although if there is other issues that you need to decide upon, for instance maintenance or dividing up property, it may be helpful to have a solicitor draw]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[You don't necessarily need a <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/solicitor" rel="tag">solicitor</a> or lawyer to manage your divorce if it is uncontested, i.e. you and your spouse agree to the divorce, although if there is other issues that you need to decide upon, for instance maintenance or dividing up property, it may be helpful to have a solicitor draw up plans. <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/obviously" rel="tag">Obviously</a> if the divorce is contested, meaning that either you or your spouse disagree to the divorce or the <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/grounds+for+divorce" rel="tag">grounds for divorce</a> ,you will need to involve a solicitor to see if there are grounds for divorce. <br /><br /> You are not automatically entitled to a divorce, you need to be able to show one of five facts which have affected your marriage. <br /><br /> When there are children under the age of 18 involved, (known as minor children) the courts will be concerned about the decision that has been made for them. They will need to know that the arrangements you and your spouse have made are in the Childs best interests. You should ask a solicitor to approve the plans that you and your spouse have made for them. <br /><br /> You should be able to resolve easily the dividing of property in your home, but if you own substantial property it may be in your interest to have a solicitor make sure you receive a fair amount and that the property is divided up tax effectively. <br /><br /> If you will be financially <a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/dependant" rel="tag">dependant</a> on your spouse after the divorce, you will need to get a solicitor to negotiate a regular payment amount and to get the amount legally protected. <br /><br /> If you can agree as much as possible with your spouse about the divorce, then it is possible that you can conduct the divorce yourself, only requiring the services of a solicitor when necessary. By conducting the divorce yourself, you can save you a great deal of money.   <bio>Sharleen Standling is a proud contributing author Find more articles at <a href="http://www.mindbodyandsoulportal.info">http://www.mindbodyandsoulportal.info</a> For more info visit <a href="http://www.onlinelawsuitresource.info/sitemap.<a href="http://www.artwoo.com/tag/htm" rel="tag">htm</a>">http://www.onlinelawsuitresource.info/sitemap.htm</a> or <a href="http://www.onlinelawsuitresource.info/divorce-lawyers.htm">http://www.onlinelawsuitresource.info/divorce-lawyers.htm</a> </bio>]]></content:encoded>
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