something can go wrong http://www.artwoo.com Returned search results for something can go wrong Copyright 2008 Sun, 12 Oct 2008 01:34:31 +0000 http://www.artwoo.com/rss/something+can+go+wrong Going Into a Relationship for the Wrong Reasons http://www.artwoo.com/article/going-into-a-relationship-for-the-wrong-reasons http://www.artwoo.com/article/going-into-a-relationship-for-the-wrong-reasons#comments Tue, 12 Aug 2008 05:22:19 +0000 reason 3reason 2girl friendsempty spaceboyfriendsjerkgaps http://www.artwoo.com/article/going-into-a-relationship-for-the-wrong-reasons
Wrong Reason #1: You feel lonely and alone.

Being lonely sometimes makes girls hang on dearly to their boyfriend even if he is not keeping his end of the bargain in terms of respect and love. Girls like this, which probably include you, feel so afraid of being alone even if their are abusive and immature that they would rather choose to continue a relationship with a than live alone.

Be very cautious if you are on the path of having a relationship just so that you can have somebody to hang out with during the weekend as this would lead you to commit wrong reason no. 1.

Wrong Reason #2: You feel the pressure of having a relationship.

Seeing every one of your with their boyfriends will definitely make you feel that you are living alone in a world made for two, especially if they're getting engaged and you're left wondering why you are still single.

Some women may take this as a go signal for them to hurry up and get into a relationship with any guy who's available just to be able to keep with the current trend of being in relationships. Doing so is another way of walking into a sure disaster. Committing because of pressure won't make you happy in the long run as rushing things like this doesn't prepare you for the greater responsibilities ahead.

Wrong Reason #3: Committing just to fill the gap.

Have you ever felt that there is a gap in your life that really needs to be filled, and yet you don't know how? Many women automatically assume that the gap is there because there is no man in their life at the moment. So they grab the next available man hoping that he could fill the .

Sad to say, it won't. The in your life will still be there even if you get into a relationship. The worst case scenario would be that he'll think that there's something wrong with you, and that your level of insecurity is obvious enough to make him hesitate in taking the relationship any further..

How then can you avoid having these wrong reasons in your relationship?

You may have heard this line before, but you should help yourself first. Being lonely doesn't mean that you automatically need a boyfriend. The answer to your loneliness could be meeting new friends and engaging in fun activities. If you look around you and all you see are couples, do not feel pressured. Instead, think of the freedoms you might have to give up once you commit.

Learn to fill the gap on your own if you think that there is something missing. The guys worth having would like to be with women who are independent and secure. Show these guys that you are worth having and you can be sure that they'll knock on your door soon.Aaron Adams specialises in relationship matters for women. Afraid of being single forever? Visit http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com to find out what to do.]]> Bed Wetting http://www.artwoo.com/article/bed-wetting http://www.artwoo.com/article/bed-wetting#comments Wed, 06 Dec 2006 06:27:09 +0000 wetting the bedbed wettingreassuredwetssomething wrongself esteeminconvenience http://www.artwoo.com/article/bed-wetting Bed wetting is more than just an . Those that suffer from bed wetting face many problems associated with this condition. is often more than just a stage a child is going through. If you are the parent of a child suffering from this problem, it is up to you to get them the medical attention they need. You need to insure that their bed wetting is not going to damage their . There are many children (and adults as well) who, finding themselves in this situation, feel as thought they have done , like they are being punished, or like there is something wrong with them. This can be shattering to their self-esteem and can have lifelong effects.

A child who the bed usually has no control over the situation. In some cases it is a medical condition that contributes to the problem. Often, it is due to circumstances that are not medically related -- such as problems with peers, parents, and others in general. Sometimes, wetting the bed is a sign that something else is wrong. It is essential for you to talk to your child in order to learn why it is happening and then work to correct it. While seeking a doctor's help is the first step you should take, the next step is to learn your child's feelings about this situation.

Encouraging a child who wets the bed to do better is not enough, nor even appropriate. The child needs to be that this is not something that they have done wrong. The child should never be reprimanded for wetting the bed. It is not something for which they should be yelled at, scolded, or otherwise punished. In the end, a child who is wetting the bed is one who needs reassurance and guidance. Linda Davis contributes to several web sites, including http://tocip.com and http://yetra.com ]]> Could You Be Dating The Wrong Person? http://www.artwoo.com/article/could-you-be-dating-the-wrong-person http://www.artwoo.com/article/could-you-be-dating-the-wrong-person#comments Sat, 19 Aug 2006 22:27:08 +0000 online datingdating resourcestargetunfortunatelyhttpsoul materose colored glasses http://www.artwoo.com/article/could-you-be-dating-the-wrong-person soul mate on the first try.

Dating can be so much fun you don't realize, until too late, that you are actually dating Mr. Wrong. Your date may be the perfect guy and still end up being wrong for you. , the only way to learn if he is for you is to date him and really get to know him.

One way to minimize the possibilities that you're dating the wrong person is to be very clear on what you really want before you start dating. Knowing what you want in your prospective partner means you can easily decide to even have a second date. Where most people will tell you to look at the positive (and that is a good thing to do) when you date, you should also stay aware of the negatives.

Take off the . Dating, while fun, is a serious game played on a very big field. You have online access as well as regular dates.. Dating is a different kind of hunt and you need to know what your prey really looks like, their habits and their peculiarities. Dating is a unique hunt because you don't kill your prey; you take it home to live with you. It is best if you do indeed like your .

Know yourself and what you want -- that is the first and maybe most important tool for the truly successful daters. The competition is not about quantity. The prize of dating is in finding the one with whom you'll live happily ever after.

True Love takes time to grow dont give your heart away freely.. Steve Pavis is the proud creator and owner of http://locatedating.com - one of the fastest growing and most prestigious resources on the web. The site has a fantastic current promotion- they are giving away dating profile editing software, which would normally cost $88, absolutely FREE- no strings attached! So do visit http://locatedating.com now, before it's too late!! ]]> Learning Spanish Could Put You In Spotlight http://www.artwoo.com/article/learning-spanish-could-put-you-in-spotlight http://www.artwoo.com/article/learning-spanish-could-put-you-in-spotlight#comments Sat, 17 Feb 2007 16:27:05 +0000 spanish languagenative spanish speakersnative spanish speakersimilar wordsspanish speaking countriesfortunatelylearn spanish http://www.artwoo.com/article/learning-spanish-could-put-you-in-spotlight Spanish language is such an interesting language to learn since it can give you much new information to learn, pronunciations to adjust to and mistakes to be learned. Good news about mistakes or accidental errors is that they tend to let you stay on the right path all the way since it keeps you at bay from committing the same error again.

It's always okay to commit language mistakes but do not allow yourself to do it again or at least, prevent yourself from making the same mistake because you'll never know when it's going to be the next time you might unconsciously fall prey on the same mistakes you did weeks or months ago. What else is that, a plain error, one Spanish word incorrectly used for the wrong purpose could get you in a great deal of embarrassment especially when you are talking to s.

The thing is that, the have used for everyday conversation but could mean differently from each other. Assuming for the right words when you're using it in the wrong places and people is one could be downright funny.

Words like cocino (fat pig) and cocinero (cook) could confuse you easily and letting it clumsily come out of your mouth in the wrong occasion could either get you in trouble (seriously). But , there hasn't been any incident of a foreigner struck down by a native Spanish speaker just because of a language mix up.

There are more "false friends" in the Spanish language and similar to the example above, two almost similar words doesn't have the same definition. For sure you know somebody who has accidentally used the wrong word for a good intention but ended with people laughing or staring weirdly at his face. But hey, that's one lesson for sure which your or your friend will never forget. Shareen Aguilar is a writer for http://learn-spanish-program.com which has Memory Improvement Books and Memory Game Software for better Spanish language memorization. ]]> Massive Business Success by Agreeing With Others http://www.artwoo.com/article/massive-business-success-by-agreeing-with-others http://www.artwoo.com/article/massive-business-success-by-agreeing-with-others#comments Sun, 05 Oct 2008 10:36:32 +0000 staggering proportionsmatter what typeremember this oneegosnevadmirationcastles http://www.artwoo.com/article/massive-business-success-by-agreeing-with-others staggering proportions is to agree with your customers and competition. No of business you are in, no matter what industry you do business in you have to deal with people. So here is one extremely important way of dealing with people that will allow you to run your business with amazing ease and have success beyond what you thought possible.

If you are opening up a shop on Main Street in your local town or a new designed website on the internet from the comfort of your home, you still have to deal with people. People are people no matter if online or in person. They still have emotions and want to be treated with respect, and always are right. Yes People are funny creatures, ego's and variations in personalities are what make this world interesting but difficult at the same time. Here is one way that I have learned to deal with people working online building website traffic and making sales online. It is to always agree with the person. The other person is er wrong. You are not going to become a push over and let people push you around, all that is going to happen between you and other people you deal with online is they are right. Remember to respect the other person's opinions. Never directly say that they are wrong. It is hard to do but is very important; never directly say the other person is wrong. It is not that they are always right and you are always wrong, that is just impossible to do.

Just thing when talking to someone online. Always respect their opinion and never say that they are wrong.

When working online building any type of business, you are always dealing with people. Always remember that. Even if you are not talking to them directly, you have to make them feel like they are kings or queens or their . When writing ads you want to interest them, get them excited and boost their ego, make them feel like they can do anything. When writing an ad or an email never start out like this. You are doing everything wrong and I can show you the best way to make money online. People will not respond positively to that. Most people will think you are arrogant and would never buy anything from you and would definitely want to join you in your business opportunity. The best and almost sure fire way to get people to click on your ads and read your emails is to make them feel like they can do it. That they are really smart and innovative and can make massive amounts of money online, by following you to help them discover the world best opportunity and marketing system the world has ever seen.

When running your business online remember to never say the other person is wrong and to always make them feel like they can make money online by following your guidance. Do this often and you will have undeniable success online.About the author: Erik Jacobson is an online marketer and entrepreneur that has been marketing online for the past 3 years. His website is a marketing guide training the new and experienced marketers how to effectively market online any business and any product. http://www.networkingforcash.com]]> Using Improper Size Blood Pressure Cuffs, May http://www.artwoo.com/article/using-improper-size-blood-pressure-cuffs-may http://www.artwoo.com/article/using-improper-size-blood-pressure-cuffs-may#comments Sat, 01 Jul 2006 22:27:10 +0000 blood pressure cuffsblood pressure monitoringblood pressure cuffobese peoplefat peoplepeople faceordinary people http://www.artwoo.com/article/using-improper-size-blood-pressure-cuffs-may ordinary people. Every medical practitioner tells you about this.

Often, face the problem of . Wrong sized s are used, and they naturally give the wrong reading. Even when the blood pressure of the is normal, the readings tell a different story.

Using improper size cuffs, at times may prove to be critical mistake! Many medical practitioners are aware of the seriousness of this discrepancy and yet they ignore it. Take the case of a pregnant woman-if she were to carry on with the use of wrong-sized blood pressure cuffs, it is not only harmful for her but also for the child. (When wrong medication is done by wrong reading of blood pressure level.)

Accuracy of data is important in treating blood pressure- high or low! Medication and blood pressure level are importantly interrelated! The blood pressure cuff that is being used must be according to your condition of health, all factors considered! In case of the pregnant women, the concern for the baby is more!

It is you who are having blood pressure, therefore, you must possess the accurate knowledge about the cuff that you are going use. In a situation where larger cuffs are needed, and you use the smaller ones, the damage will be difficult to repair at a later time. For, the damage might have already occurred! As a blood pressure patient, you must be in constant touch with the blood pressure related matters, through some authentic journals, and you must keep a tab on the latest research on cuffs also. It is in your interest!

There are scientific reasons why a large-sized cuff is needed. Use a regular cuff on a fat person. It will artificially inflate the level of blood pressure in fat individuals. There won't be meaning in further treatment, if the data before the medical practitioner is itself wrong! Cuff, when accepted and used as a measuring instrument of blood pressure, it should be a correct-sized tool. Ashish Jain writes different topics. For more information on blood pressure visit http://www.blood-pressure-updates.com and visit the main article page: http://www.blood-pressure-updates.com/index.html To comment on this article visit: http://www.blood-pressure-updates.com/2006-05-06 ]]> Dog Training Problems - Sending Your Dog The Wrong Message http://www.artwoo.com/article/dog-training-problems-sending-your-dog-the-wrong-message http://www.artwoo.com/article/dog-training-problems-sending-your-dog-the-wrong-message#comments Sun, 16 Sep 2007 05:19:59 +0000 positive reinforcementcoprophagiadogspetseuthanizednegative behaviorfeces http://www.artwoo.com/article/dog-training-problems-sending-your-dog-the-wrong-message dogs are simply abandoned because their owners easily gave up on them. The reason for this phenomenon is simple. Some pet owners simply can't teach or control their . They blame "bad pet behavior" as their reason for taking their pets to the pound or worse, just dropping them of on some strange street. Sadly, these dogs are often in the pound because of over population.

It seems miscommunication plays a vital role in the increasing number of deaths in dogs cause by behavioral problems. Since it is easier to teach a dog a wrong behavior, most dog owners tend to accomplish this feat. They usually impose punishment improperly and do not make an effort to correct the wrong behavior of their pets. Sadly, proper training and can address this kind of problem.

The most effective way of teaching a dog proper behavior is knowing how to correct their wrong behavior. There are two ways to correct the wrong behavior of your dog, a positive way and a negative way. Spanking, kicking or yelling at your dog to correct his wrong behavior will most likely only lead to more . Spanking a dog when he enters an area in which he is not allowed will relay a wrong message that you do not want him to go there if you are not watching. In addition, when you rub the dog's nose on its he will think that you want him to eat his own feces. This kind of behavior is called .



In contrast, when you are able to correct the negative behavior of your dog, you may give him positive commands like sit, lie down or stay. If the dog ignores you, walk away from him for a minute or two then come back again. When he obeys, you give him positive reinforcement such as good rub or a treat. Positive reinforcement of good behavior works.

Exercise is a vital component of dog training. In fact, dogs that are not exercised regularly tend to find ways, usually destructive, to release their energy. The common reason for the lack of exercise is that most owners find it difficult to control their dogs during walks. The result is less frequent walks and more behavioral problems.

Teaching your dog the basic obedience training is not a difficult task; it merely requires patience and constant practice. However, the price of the hard work is long years of enjoyment. If you think you cannot teach your dog the basic obedience training, there are available training class programs for owners. After all, usually it's the owner, not the pet, which needs the training. http://www.discount-pet-mall.com ]]> Healthy Guilt, Unhealthy Guilt http://www.artwoo.com/article/healthy-guilt-unhealthy-guilt http://www.artwoo.com/article/healthy-guilt-unhealthy-guilt#comments Sat, 28 Jul 2007 13:25:00 +0000 guiltsomething wrongsociopathsadultwreck havocremorsedeliberately http://www.artwoo.com/article/healthy-guilt-unhealthy-guilt Guilt is the feeling that results when you tell yourself that you have done .

HEALTHY GUILT

Healthy guilt is the feeling that occurs when you have actually done something wrong - such as harming someone. This is an important feeling, which results from having developed a conscience - a loving self who is concerned with your highest good and the highest good of all. People who never developed a conscience and feel no guilt or over harming others are called . These people have no loving adult self and can - stealing, raping, killing - without ever feeling badly about it.

Healthy guilt results in taking responsibility for our choices and being accountable for our actions. When we have not behaved in a way that is in our highest good and the highest good of all, our loving adult self will feel remorse and take over, doing whatever we have to do to remedy the situation.

UNHEALTHY GUILT

Unhealthy guilt results from telling yourself that you have done something wrong when you haven't actually done something wrong. For example, if you decide to do something for yourself with no intent to harm anyone, and someone gets upset with you for doing what you want instead of doing what he or she wants, what do you tell yourself? Here are some of the inner statements that can lead to unhealthy guilt:

"It's my fault that he is feeling angry."

"I should have done what she wanted instead of what I wanted. I have caused her to feel hurt."

"I'm being selfish in doing what I want to do."

"It's my duty to put myself aside and do what others want me to do."

"If he gets angry with me, then I must have done something wrong."

"If she is hurt, then I must have done something wrong."

Many of us have been trained to believe that we are responsible for others' feelings, so that when others are angry or hurt, it is our fault. But unless you deliberately intended to harm someone, his or her feelings are not your responsibility. Others get hurt when they take your behavior personally, and they get angry when they make you responsible for their feelings. But this does not mean that you are responsible for their feelings.

You are responsible for your own intent. When you intend to harm someone, then you are responsible for the results of that. But when you just want to take care of yourself with no intent to harm anyone - such as want some time alone when your partner wants to spend time with you - then you are not responsible for your partner's upset.

Unhealthy guilt comes from telling yourself a lie. When the wounded, programmed critical part of you takes over and tells you that doing what you want with no intent to harm anyone is wrong, that is when you will feel unhealthy guilt. This critical part of you wants to control how others feel about you, and so tells you the lie that you are responsible for others' feelings.



Unhealthy guilt also arises when someone blames you for his or her feelings and you take on the blame. Many people have learned to blame others for their feelings rather than take responsible for their own feelings. When you accept this blame, it is because you want to believe that you can control others' feelings. You will feel unhealthy guilt when you accept blame for others' feelings.

Healthy guilt is an important feeling and leads to positive action, but unhealthy guilt is a waste of energy. Margaret Paul, Ph.D., best-selling author of eight books, including "Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You" and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding healing process. FREE Inner Bonding course at: http://www.innerbonding.com. Phone sessions available. mailto:margaret@innerbonding.com. ]]> Holding on to Him http://www.artwoo.com/article/holding-on-to-him http://www.artwoo.com/article/holding-on-to-him#comments Mon, 01 Sep 2008 16:29:12 +0000 thoughts and feelingsguilty partybetter manbad newssteamrelationshipsrelationship http://www.artwoo.com/article/holding-on-to-him relationships" rel="tag">relationships go through the same pattern every time meaning it starts out good then slowly loses especially if you start talking about going into a more serious stage in the relation, then take stock.

It would be so easy for you to point to the man as the but if this happens all the time you better look at yourself and ask if there is something wrong with you as well. You may think that you always attract the wrong kind, but you have to admit that you might have date some good men too but for some reason the relationship ceased growing when you shared some of your with him.

Try to look back. Did you correct him frequently for every little wrong thing he has done? Did you try to do things that would "convince" him to love you more? Of course you thought, as with many women, that these things would make him a at the end of the day. The is that if you think that way, you would only alienate him more by making him thing that there must be something wrong with him. When he thinks that way, he will start pulling back from the relationship.

Faced with this scenario, what do you usually do? Go overtime and win him back? Or complain endlessly about how he can't take corrections? Whichever way you choose, those two options will just makes things worse. In this case, withdrawing does not mean he doesn't love you anymore. He withdraws because that is how he copes up when faced with a situation like this. The more you complain, the more he will think that having a relationship with you is not worth it.

Women tend to commit common mistakes that can definitely drive their man away. Can you find ways of holding on to him?

Definitely yes! In not so many words, you have to understand how your man thinks. Of course you know that you and your man do not think the same way. You may not be aware how differently you think but you do. By understanding how he thinks, you can plan your actions in a way that will be in sync with his.

For example, every single man has his own way of enjoying himself. He may want to spend time with his friends, or tinker with whatever hobby he has or it could be his drive towards a successful career. Whatever that may be, don't forget that he shouldn't give up all these things just because you entered into his life. If you make him choose between you and the things he love doing, you may end up on the losing end.

Ultimately, teach yourself to understand how he thinks without forming your own conclusions and biases. Believe me, when you do understand him, it would be easier for you to hold on to him because he would be the one drawing closer to you.Aaron Adams specialises in relationship matters for women. Visit http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com for more relationship advice.Find out how to get him passionate about you again.]]> Atlanta Real Estate Agents - The New Real Estate Ways http://www.artwoo.com/article/atlanta-real-estate-agents-the-new-real-estate-ways http://www.artwoo.com/article/atlanta-real-estate-agents-the-new-real-estate-ways#comments Sun, 16 Dec 2007 03:19:59 +0000 good habitexisting real estateprofessional agentsprofessional agentthree quarterstop agentsreal estate agents http://www.artwoo.com/article/atlanta-real-estate-agents-the-new-real-estate-ways real estate agents fail out the real estate industry with 16months. Statistics also shows that, if a newly register real estate gets the correct training in the first 5months,the real estate chances for success becomes 65%. There are many things that contribute to the things that may go wrong with a real estate. Most of these things are caused by the real estate agent. Sometimes these real estate agents are excited over nothing and get into their investment capital or they do nothing instead of something. At times things go wrong with real estates when the agent has not had enough training and when he or she is not accountable.

Many real estate agents fail to understand that, they have to spend as to make their profit. But you have to spend wisely or things are really going to go wrong with your real estate. Many agents are giving so much money to their brokers out there when there is not a lot left to build their own sales business.

Things may also go wrong with real estates when are not in line with top professionals or other agents. Always find out who are the in other real estates or even those who are below you, and ask questions such as how their training was, when they started the real estate stuff, their break through and which advice can they give you.

Things may go wrong with a real estate when s do not want to learn or listen to non professional agents. What ever the non-professional agents tells you as a professional agent, think strongly about it, doing just that.

Most real estate agents face difficulties when they do not want to ask for help form other agents. It will be good to find someone who is willing and wants to help your real estate grow.

If your are not straight forward to your buyers and sellers things may also go wrong with your real estate. In short make s, because they will be difficult to break. And it will not be good to be setting your goals too high, set realistic goals. The Real Estate market is more exciting than ever before. As the market slows down, the weak agents will be kicked out of the market. The strongest will survive and do very well. You don't just want to be average. Average does not cut it. You have to stay ahead of the curve by continuously training on the new ways of marketing and serving buyers and sellers. Forget about all the old training ideas and methods. The market has changed. You also have to educate your sellers about the new ways of marketing real estate. many home sellers still do not understand that classified ads in newspapers don't work any more. nobody is looking at them. Everybody is on the internet today. Eric Mabo is an Atlanta foreclosures Expert. He helps people find real estate deals. Visit his website at http://www.thedeallocator.com ]]> Using Improper Size Blood Pressure Cuffs, May Prove A Big Mistake! http://www.artwoo.com/article/using-improper-size-blood-pressure-cuffs-may-prove-a-big-mistake http://www.artwoo.com/article/using-improper-size-blood-pressure-cuffs-may-prove-a-big-mistake#comments Sun, 09 Jul 2006 08:27:09 +0000 blood pressure cuffsblood pressure monitoringblood pressure cuffobese peoplefat peoplepeople faceordinary people http://www.artwoo.com/article/using-improper-size-blood-pressure-cuffs-may-prove-a-big-mistake ordinary people. Every medical practitioner tells you about this.

Often, face the problem of . Wrong sized s are used, and they naturally give the wrong reading. Even when the blood pressure of the is normal, the readings tell a different story.

Using improper size cuffs, at times may prove to be critical mistake! Many medical practitioners are aware of the seriousness of this discrepancy and yet they ignore it. Take the case of a pregnant woman-if she were to carry on with the use of wrong-sized blood pressure cuffs, it is not only harmful for her but also for the child. (When wrong medication is done by wrong reading of blood pressure level.)

Accuracy of data is important in treating blood pressure- high or low! Medication and blood pressure level are importantly interrelated! The blood pressure cuff that is being used must be according to your condition of health, all factors considered! In case of the pregnant women, the concern for the baby is more!

It is you who are having blood pressure, therefore, you must possess the accurate knowledge about the cuff that you are going use. In a situation where larger cuffs are needed, and you use the smaller ones, the damage will be difficult to repair at a later time. For, the damage might have already occurred! As a blood pressure patient, you must be in constant touch with the blood pressure related matters, through some authentic journals, and you must keep a tab on the latest research on cuffs also. It is in your interest!

There are scientific reasons why a large-sized cuff is needed. Use a regular cuff on a fat person. It will artificially inflate the level of blood pressure in fat individuals. There won't be meaning in further treatment, if the data before the medical practitioner is itself wrong! Cuff, when accepted and used as a measuring instrument of blood pressure, it should be a correct-sized tool. Ashish Jain writes different topics. For more information on blood pressure visit http://www.blood-pressure-updates.com and visit the main article page: http://www.blood-pressure-updates.com/index.html To comment on this article visit: http://www.blood-pressure-updates.com/2006-05-06 ]]> Are You The Man For The Job? http://www.artwoo.com/article/are-you-the-man-for-the-job http://www.artwoo.com/article/are-you-the-man-for-the-job#comments Thu, 12 Jul 2007 03:15:05 +0000 franchise opportunityfranchise expertfranchise feestake this jobfranchisorapply for a jobcosts money http://www.artwoo.com/article/are-you-the-man-for-the-job franchise opportunity and the , but you need to assess yourself.

Normally if you were to your employer would want to know a whole heap of stuff about you. They will want to see a CV and they will want to interview you ( probably on several occasions). But (and this is a big but) it is very much in the employers interest that they get the right person. If they get it wrong, they could have problems with you doing the job, extra training and perhaps even having to replace you and that all and can damage client relationships. However, you still get your wages to the point they decide to sack you - if things are going really wrong.

So in a typical employee/employer situation the evaluation of your skills and abilities sits with the employer. If they get it wrong, then in the short to medium term they end up counting the cost of this decision and you will probably not suffer too many long lasting effects.

But for a prospective franchisee, you are PAYING money upfront to take this "job". If you are not cut out for the role and the business fails because of that, the person that primarily loses out is you!! The franchisor has your money; admittedly if you continue in business they will also take a percentage and from you. But, if you fail they replace you and take someone else's money upfront and perhaps they will work out. You cannot rely on the franchisor to be as careful as an employer would be.

So how can you check you are the right person for this franchising job? You need to ask the right questions of yourself and match your skills and potential with the requirements of running a particular franchise. Our guides tell you how to make this assessment and help make sure you take the "job" that is right for you. Written by The - a team of experienced franchisees based in UK. Visit us now for at http://www.the-franchise-expert.co.uk for more great franchise advice. ]]> How to Get Your ex Girlfriend Back Into Your Arms http://www.artwoo.com/article/how-to-get-your-ex-girlfriend-back-into-your-arms http://www.artwoo.com/article/how-to-get-your-ex-girlfriend-back-into-your-arms#comments Tue, 15 Jul 2008 21:29:13 +0000 corrective stepstimes menprofound effectwrongdoinggood timesex girlfriendsnap http://www.artwoo.com/article/how-to-get-your-ex-girlfriend-back-into-your-arms ex girlfriend back into your arms can be done if you follow the right steps. I am sure that you have probably tried everything that you can possibly think of and have not had much success and that has probably has led you to reading this article. Well, I am glad you found it because getting her back into her arms can be a if you have the right plan in place and take the right steps.

The first step you are going to take is letting her know that you admit . Many just gloss over the fact that they even did anything wrong and are so focused on getting their ex girlfriend back that they forget about what actually caused the break up to begin with. Let her know that you know you messed up. Accept things and let her know that you don't blame her for wanting to break up. This has a on women. For one thing they will be caught by surprise and won't know how to react. What usually happens is a woman will expect you to beg and plead and call and say sorry, but what she will not expect is for you to say that you messed up and want to make things right. Once you get to this point you can start taking the rest of the you need to in order to get her back.

The next thing you should do is to give her some space. This works in a variety of ways. First of all it works by giving her a chance to actually miss you. If you are always around she will never get the chance to miss you and will most likely just think about what you did to break up the relationship. It will also give her time to think about things. Of course she will think of all the things that went wrong, but when we are given time to think usually things will pop into our heads that we have not thought of for a while. For example, the first time you kissed or the first time you met. You see, when she thinks of the it will remind her of all the reasons she should get back together with you. When she remembers these times it will make her decision to try to work things out much easier.



The last thing you can do to get your ex girlfriend back into your arms is not too focus on the past when you are around her. Rather what you should do is focus on the here and now and what you can do to make things good between the two of you. Focusing on the past usually will put a spotlight on what went wrong. This is something you definitely want to avoid. Steer clear of the things that went wrong and focus in on what went right and you will get your ex girlfriend back into your arms in no time.Need a plan to show you how to get your ex girlfriend back? Learn more here: Geting Your Ex Girlfriend Back. Getting back with your ex is easy if you have the right tools, here is a whole tool box, click here: Get Your Ex Back.]]> Signs That You've Hired The Wrong Carpet Cleaner http://www.artwoo.com/article/signs-that-youve-hired-the-wrong-carpet-cleaner http://www.artwoo.com/article/signs-that-youve-hired-the-wrong-carpet-cleaner#comments Sun, 17 Jun 2007 19:35:00 +0000 carpet cleaning companycarpet cleaning servicecarpet cleaneranxiously awaitingrust holesappointmentpaint sealant http://www.artwoo.com/article/signs-that-youve-hired-the-wrong-carpet-cleaner appointment with a and are their arrival. How do you know that you have hired the wrong carpet cleaner? Read on and find out the top 5 ways to tell that you have hired the wrong .

#5. They show up three hours late. Any carpet cleaner worth their salt will be able to accurately schedule an appointment. If they are late it means that they are overbooking in hopes of rushing through their jobs or that they just do not care about your time.

#4. You hear them coming before they pull up to your house. Their truck is making more noise than a DC-10 as it pulls up to your house dragging its muffler behind them. You look out your window and find a van parked in your drive that is almost transparent because of all the .

#3. They are shabbily dressed. You open the door and find someone wearing an old t-shirt with every manner of stains. Then their odor hits you before they say hello.

#2. The bill triples every ten minutes. They may have come out for $9.95 per room but they are selling you every extra under the sun even ones that you do not need. And what's this charge for .

And the #1 way you can tell you have hired a carpet cleaner. The carpet is dirtier than it was before. In three days when it finally dries you are left with a musty, dark and mildewed mess. The stench coming from the rug is a constant reminder of your mistake.

As you can see, you need to be careful when you hire a . Do your research before you hire them and you will be much more likely to end up with a good job. Good luck Go to http://www.eriecarpetcleaning.info for more information on hiring a carpet cleaner. ]]> Do People With Scripts Do Better? http://www.artwoo.com/article/do-people-with-scripts-do-better http://www.artwoo.com/article/do-people-with-scripts-do-better#comments Fri, 20 Oct 2006 06:27:08 +0000 quotscriptsone in a hundredindustry trainersscriptingeasily persuadedstop pretending http://www.artwoo.com/article/do-people-with-scripts-do-better scripts when talking to prospects. Others say scripts make you sound stiff and well, scripted.

Some say get a good ice-breaker, and you're good to go. Others say you should find out what the other person wants, and then show how your thing IS that. (That's the old 'find their hot button' strategy that most people still use.) Most say that if you use such scripts, you won't hear and;noandquot; anymore.

Here's my take.

The words you use with a prospect, scripted or not, are good for one thing: To prevent accidentally turning off a right person. No script will make the wrong person a right person. If they were too , they just quit.

Only might make a good recruit - i.e. someone who wants to do 100% commission sales and recruiting. If you turn that one off with the words you use, you'll need to plan for another hundred calls. (Yes, you CAN say the wrong thing to the right person. People do it to me all the time.)

So before you start talking to people, and before you pay out money for classes and materials, including mine, know and accept that 99 in a hundred are the wrong ones for the business, no matter what you say. Yes, they may want more money, but no, they will not do commission sales or stick with it to get it.

Learn to let go of the wrong ones for now. You can always try again in a few months, if you think they're really special. And ask for a referral.

Bottom line: Most people are NOT right for your busines. It doesn't matter what you say. The one in a hundred (that's generous) statistic is what it is. The sooner companies and the industry trainers that all it takes is 'their' scripting approach to get an andquot;I'm interestedandquot; response from most everyone, the better off the planet will be.

P.S. Yes, you can ask over and over, andquot;What has to happen for you to say yes?andquot; and if you let yourself, you will hear the answer: andquot;Talk to someone else. I don't play tennis.andquot;

Ahhh. Kim Klaver is Harvard andamp; Stanford educated. Her 20 years experience in network marketing have resulted in a popular blog, http://KimKlaverBlogs.com, a podcast, http://YourGreatThing.com and a giant resource site, http://BananaMarketing.com ]]> How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back-The Wrong Ways That Will Destroy Your Chances! http://www.artwoo.com/article/how-to-get-your-ex-boyfriend-back-the-wrong-ways-that-will-destroy-your-chances http://www.artwoo.com/article/how-to-get-your-ex-boyfriend-back-the-wrong-ways-that-will-destroy-your-chances#comments Wed, 06 Aug 2008 19:08:57 +0000 stalkeremotionsemailrelationshipfirst reaction http://www.artwoo.com/article/how-to-get-your-ex-boyfriend-back-the-wrong-ways-that-will-destroy-your-chances emotions are running wild, you are not thinking straight. You just know you want your ex boyfriend back and you want him back now.

First thing you need to do is not be irrational and calm down. You are thinking how can you be rational and calm when you just lost the man you love. But if you don't you probably will do one or more of these following wrong ways on how to get your ex boyfriend back.

How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back-The Wrong Ways

1. Say Things That Will Push Your Ex Boyfriend Buttons.

We all know how to push the buttons of our loved ones, we know what to say to get them upset. It may be to blame them for everything that goes wrong or say things such as "you don't pay any attention to me anymore".

But if you really want to get your ex boyfriend back why in the world would you want to start an argument. Remember, you have just broken up with your ex boyfriend and you are not thinking rational. Do not start an argument with your ex boyfriend.

2. Try to Make Your Ex Boyfriend Jealous.

Oh come on ladies, men don't like to be make jealous! Do you? You have just broken up with your boyfriend and your is to make him jealous? Do you really think making him jealous is going to make him come running back to you. You need a better plan than that to get your ex boyfriend back.

3. Behave Like a .

You are thinking or want to call him constantly, or text him every minute. He needs his space for a while, so do you. Now that you have broken up with your boyfriend, it is very important that you take a true break from your .

In other words, you need to stop calling him, emailing, texting, stopping by, showing up at places where you think your he will be. You both need a break from each other. You need to give him chance to miss you, he may be going through the same process as you are going through. Leave him along for a while.

4. Beg Your Ex Boyfriend to Come Back to You.

No, this won't work either. Acting or being needy by begging is a turn-off for men. You will realize after you have a plan on how to get your ex boyfriend back that you want to approach your ex boyfriend in a position of strength not pity. Do you want your ex boyfriend to come back to you because of pity? You want him to come back to you because he realize that he loves you.

If you have already made these mistakes it is not too late. The good news is you still have time to salvage your relationship! You need to get your head on straight now and start working on ways how to get your ex boyfriend back.Watch Free Videos Here on the first step of getting back with your ex boyfriend. These are proven ways on how to get your ex boyfriend back but I must warn you that they are unconventional!]]> Teen Discipline: Just As Important Now As It Was Then http://www.artwoo.com/article/teen-discipline-just-as-important-now-as-it-was-then http://www.artwoo.com/article/teen-discipline-just-as-important-now-as-it-was-then#comments Wed, 01 Nov 2006 22:27:03 +0000 disciplinemonkey see monkey doconsequencessee monkeyteenagerparentsold enough to know http://www.artwoo.com/article/teen-discipline-just-as-important-now-as-it-was-then discipline and correct your child. The days when you did it because you knew they knew no better and looked to you for guidance and direction in this scary world. With your child now turned , "No, No" just doesn't cut it anymore.

Sadly, many , now days are under the assumption that since their teen is right from wrong, they don't have to discipline them. After all, they know what they can and can't do, as well as the that arise from doing wrong, and that should be enough to keep them on the straight and narrow, right?

Oh, how nice that would be; teach your child right from wrong, throw in a few repercussions and every child would choose the right path in life? Enough of dream world, it's time to face reality.

As a teenager, your child is experiencing so many changes in his or her life right now, why give them something else to adapt to. Your consequences for wrong choices and your quantity of discipline may change, but the quality should not.

Your teen needs to know that you have boundaries, what they are and the consequences for crossing them. More importantly, your teen needs to know that you will stick with those consequences.

Many parents don't realize that the discipline you give your child as a teenager is what will stick in their mind the longest. The discipline you teach your teen will help them to succeed in adult life, maybe even more so than the "no-no" and "that's icky" ever will. Sure the basic lessons will stay embedded in their memory for life, but the fresher knowledge will be what they recall first.

Parenting a teen requires a strong backbone, consistency and a lot of patience. It's not easy, but there are some basics to keep in mind when considering teen discipline.

Remember the saying, "Monkey See, Monkey Do"? This especially applies to parents of teens. You're child will be more apt to say things like, "Why is it ok for you, but not me?" When they were younger it was ok to say, because I'm an adult. Now your child is older and can see right through that. In addition, you don't want them to raise your future grandchildren on that belief do you?

"Do as I say and not as I do", won't work either. Just like you, your teen is now held accountable for the choices they make. Set a good example and show your teen, through not only your words, but your actions as well, what it takes to become an accountable adult.

The younger years taught your child right from wrong in many ways, such as don't touch the stove; it's hot and will burn you. But as a parent of a teen, you are dealing with problems that could have a much more negative effect on your child than ointment and a band-aide can heal. The teen years bring on issues such as drugs and sexuality that can have a lasting impact on what your child does or doesn't do with their life as an adult. Need discipline help for your teen? http://www.parentingmyteen.com discusses this and other teen issues parents face. You can also pick up the Parenting My Teen Oath while you're there. ]]> New Start To Online Wealth http://www.artwoo.com/article/new-start-to-online-wealth http://www.artwoo.com/article/new-start-to-online-wealth#comments Sat, 18 Nov 2006 20:27:05 +0000 step in the right directioncompany focusprioritizesuccessestake advantagemake money http://www.artwoo.com/article/new-start-to-online-wealth make money but instead got suckered by some online company. First you should not be hard on yourself, you took a step most people are to afraid to take. Most people just criticize about how bad their lives are, or give you the reasons why your new venture will not work. So if anything you should be very proud of yourself because you took a . It is not your fault that people try to of beginners.

Think of this as your second shot to a new start to online wealth. Your first time you could have failed for a number of reasons. Maybe you joined a company and expected them to do all of the work for you. Maybe you did not your goals. Their could be a number of reasons why things did not go according to your plans. What is important now is that you do not quit. Most people fail once and give up. Failing is normal, in fact you learn more from your failures than you do from your . Which brings me to my next point, which is that the key is to learn from your mistakes.

Now it is time to analyze what went wrong with your first try. Do not focus on the company, focus on yourself. What did you not do enough of? What could have you done better? Write down what you did wrong or did not do. Now let's focus on the future. What can you do better in your next business? Maybe you need to research more, maybe the hour a day for your business is not enough, or maybe you need to find someone to help you. Whatever you feel you could do better write it down. Next, join your next company and apply the information on what you could do better. If your analysis is correct keep it up and if you were wrong reanalysis your progress again.

This is a simple strategy to make money in any field. Practice makes perfect. When you fail, analysis what went wrong and make the corrections. Then apply those corrections. If you fail again repeat the steps again. That is the different between a winner and a loser. Winners keep going and adjusting, losers quit after their first try. Making lots of money does not require talent or any special skills, it just requires persistence and analysis. This article could be the key to your new start to online wealth, it is up to you to apply it. New Start To Online Wealth was written by Eric Fields. http://unlimitedwealthalliance.com/rep/airpr23 This article may be reprinted provided no part thereof is edited in any way and this resource box is included. ]]> Cheating In The NFL http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheating-in-the-nfl http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheating-in-the-nfl#comments Mon, 24 Sep 2007 14:30:00 +0000 professional sports teamsprofessional sports leaguesnfl careerformer nflnfl playernfl teamsprofessional athletes http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheating-in-the-nfl professional sports leagues as a sport that cheats.

As a player, I would always hear the saying, "If you're not cheating, you're not trying." Pretty sad isn't it? Well, I think the Patriots took that statement to heart and that is why they got caught. Unfortunately, cheating is much more common in the NFL than fans realize.

When I played in the NFL, there were many teams that I played against that by "magic" seemed to know what our plays were. There were teams that I played against where I would ask myself, "How on earth do they know what plays we are running?"

You should know that cheating runs rampant in the NFL and it is not just the Patriots that are cheating. Yes, they got caught because they made their cheating too obvious. But make no mistake about it, it is a fact that all cheat to some extent.

In my I was taught that a team has to do whatever it can do to get an advantage over the competition, and that cheating is considered okay as long as you don't get caught. It is just a part of the game. But in my heart I knew that cheating was wrong. As and , we are supposed to be setting a good example of the highest level of sports. But we are not setting a good example. We are not playing fair. Maybe you can say cheating is fair because everybody is doing it but I think it is wrong. I believe in fair competition and what is happening in professional sports with cheating is a disgrace.

Another huge problem caused by pro teams cheating is that it teaches our children that cheating is okay - as long as you don't get caught. As pro athletes and sports teams, we need to set an example and teach kids that cheating is wrong.

Cheating is a black and white issue and there should be no gray areas. You cannot say cheating is okay for some things but wrong for other things. Cheating is always wrong and it cannot be tolerated. Cheating has a snowball effect. Kids learn that if they don't get caught, cheating is okay. So, after cheating a few times on small things and not getting caught, they move up to cheating on bigger things. That is when the real problems start as children and young adults do not understand the consequences for their actions, and by cheating they are being a dishonorable human being. If you cannot be trusted to play fair, you should not be allowed to play.

I feel that teams that cheat need to be punished and punished severely. Besides being fined and penalized with losing draft choices. Your team should automatically lose the game too. Coaches caught cheating should be suspended without pay for the season, or even fired. There has to be a system in place where the consequences of cheating are so severe that teams will not risk getting caught. It is sad that it has to come to this but cheating cannot be tolerated. Martin Chase is a retired who now owns a popular NFL Merchandise website at http://www.mcsportsfan.com. ]]> Tips For Successfully Rescuing Your Relationship http://www.artwoo.com/article/tips-for-successfully-rescuing-your-relationship http://www.artwoo.com/article/tips-for-successfully-rescuing-your-relationship#comments Sat, 27 Sep 2008 05:15:28 +0000 negative perceptionsrelationship workexperience difficultiesembersecond chancevergeordeal http://www.artwoo.com/article/tips-for-successfully-rescuing-your-relationship experience difficulties at certain times. The factors that contribute to these difficulties should be identified, especially when trying to rescue relationships.

People have relationships in different degrees. This would include relationships with:

- our parents
- siblings
- friends
- special someone
- colleagues
- bosses
- even with our pets

All these relationships need effort and responsibility. It needs to be maintained in some level or degree. Sometimes it needs to be rescued when on of failure. These tips may help you on how you can make your when at the verge of failing.

THERE IS STILL TIME

If you don't believe and accept this, your relationship will get ruined before you can actually rescue it. Although you may have on things, in connection with your relationship, everything can work out at the right time.

For cases wherein you have tried everything, making you fed up and feel tired, you may even say that your relationship failed. Of course, you feel defeated. All these thoughts will make your relationship lifeless. Before this happens, try to make up your mind.

You must give yourself a . Although you are hurt, disappointed, and devastated, you need to wish to make your relationship survive. You need to feel good about your relationship again. That's all you actually need.

It is only right for you to wish to feel loving towards that person again. You know that once in your life, you felt those emotions already. This is a very good feeling. It will serve as small where big fires of love will spark.

YOU ARE NOT ON YOUR OWN

If you feel discouraged and confused at this moment, you may also feel lonesome that you have a failing relationship. You can also feel an overwhelming hurt or problem that may get deeper. In this situations, just remember that you are not alone.

You can seek help from counselors who can be with you throughout this . He can walk with you in this network of emotion. He can relate without judgment or condemnation. He will be willing to tell you the truth.

Seek someone who has helped people build and preserve the key relationships in their lives. Look for someone who will meet you at whatever point. Seek someone who will give you the power to make changes.

When you feel closer to your success, you will have the courage to get the real deal with your self. Hence, here are Five Major Steps in Rescuing your Relationship:

1. FIND OUT WHERE YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS RIGHT NOW

You cannot precisely define what is wrong with your relationship. This is unless you know where your relationship is now. When you know where it is, you will set reasonable goals for change.

Take your self and your relationship to a whole new degree. Once you know the problem, that's when you can figure out what the solution is. You will be awed when you know what power this knowledge can give you.

2. RID YOURSELF OF WRONG THINKING

You suffered not because of the absence of information. You suffered because you poisoned your mind with wrong information. This wrong information has sent you to the wrong road. You continue wrong alternatives so as to wrongly address the defined problems. When you misdiagnose the problem, you mistakenly embraced wrong thinking. You live in a life where you are giving the wrong treatment to the wrong problem.

3. ASSESS YOUR OWN NEGATIVE ATTITUDE AND BEHAVIOR

It will be important to know your own negative attitude and behavior. Know the specific ways you can do severe harm to your own relationship. In short, don't point your finger at your partner if you are the one who has done big mistakes in your relationship.

You find plenty of things you need to fix with your self before you can ever get to focus on your partner. Once you acknowledge this, you will be able to start shaping it into what you want. Once you know that you are on focus, it will be great because you can then control your self.

4. INTERNALIZE "PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP VALUES"

This will become the new foundation of your relationship. Personal Relationship Values will lead you back to your own self. It will tune you up emotionally towards the best part of your self. It will set your behavior by giving your partner positive things to react to.

5. YOU WILL BE TAUGHT THE MOST BASIC AND CONTROLLING FORMULA THAT CAN ACTIVATE THE CENTER OF HUMAN FUNCTIONING.

This is the specific formula for a successful relationship.For more information on Relationship Health please visit our website.]]>