http://www.artwoo.com Returned search results for cheating boyfriends Copyright 2008 Sat, 22 Nov 2008 13:29:44 +0000 http://www.artwoo.com/rss/cheating+boyfriends http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheating-boyfriends-top-5-signs-of-a-cheating-boyfriend http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheating-boyfriends-top-5-signs-of-a-cheating-boyfriend#comments Sun, 08 Jul 2007 22:24:59 +0000 signs of a cheating boyfriendsigns he is cheatingcheating boyfriendsex girlfriendsold girlfriendsfidelitymonogamous http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheating-boyfriends-top-5-signs-of-a-cheating-boyfriend Cheating boyfriends leave many signs and with a little patience, and by giving him lots of time and space to cheat, you can catch your cheating boyfriend without having to hire a costly private investigator. We have compiled a list of the top 5 signs of a cheating boyfriend so you can tell whether or not your boyfriend is cheating. Remember to pay attention to details and follow your gut instinct. In addition, if you and your boyfriend haven't clearly discussed whether the two of you are both monogamous in your relationship, don't assume he has just "automatically" decided to be faithful to only you. Maybe in your cheating boyfriend's mind, your relationship isn't serious enough for him to consider being faithful yet. Make sure you are both clear on where you stand regarding fidelity in your relationship.

1. Lack of intimacy. This doesn't always have to be in the form of sex. It can be a decline of touching, cuddling, holding hands or kissing.

2. He cheated on his old girlfriends. If you can talk to some of his old girlfriends, by all means, do it. However, make sure to ask his ex-girlfriends in a kind and calm manner so they do not become defensive. A cheating boyfriend will usually repeat their behavior with their next girlfriend.

3. He avoids you. A big sign of a cheating boyfriend is when he makes up all sorts of excuses as to why he can't be with you because he's spending time with his "other" girlfriend. If he has to work late, stay after school, is always with his friend's or co-workers more than usual, these could be the excuses your boyfriend is using to cover up his cheating ways.

4. He never answers his cell phone around you. A way to tell if your boyfriend is cheating is if he always turns his ringer off around you or walks out of hearing distance from you. These are big big red flags he may be cheating. If he receives calls at odd hours or speaks on the phone in a strange manner could also be signs he is cheating.

5. He is irritable or criticizes you more. If your boyfriend's behavior suddenly changes, there is a possibility that he may be finding fault with you in order to justify his cheating in his mind. That way your cheating boyfriend can say you "drove" him away because of your supposed faults. The opposite of this behavior is being overly nice, giving gifts and being lovey-dovey because he wants to keep his cake (you) and eat it too (his other girlfriend).

If you discover your boyfriend is cheating, seek support from those around you like friends and family. Don't get revenge by sleeping with one of his friends because it just brings you down to his low level and you should strive to be the bigger person. The circumstances of your boyfriend's cheating will allow you to decide whether to leave or stay. It is very therapeutic to write down your anger, sadness and disappointment in the form of a letter or a cheating boyfriend poem. Allow yourself some grieving time and then get right back into the game of life by filling your life with activities that interest you. Online Dating and Infidelity Expert, Stephany Alexander, B.A. is CEO/Founder of http://www.WomanSavers.com, the "World's Largest Database Rating Men" and the author of "Sex, Lies and the Internet" - How to Avoid Being Scammed, Used and Abused by Men. Featured on FOX, CNN, New York Times, CNBC and more! ]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheating-in-the-nfl http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheating-in-the-nfl#comments Mon, 24 Sep 2007 14:30:00 +0000 professional sports teamsprofessional sports leaguesnfl careerformer nflnfl playernfl teamsprofessional athletes http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheating-in-the-nfl professional sports leagues as a sport that cheats.

As a former NFL player, I would always hear the saying, "If you're not cheating, you're not trying." Pretty sad isn't it? Well, I think the Patriots took that statement to heart and that is why they got caught. Unfortunately, cheating is much more common in the NFL than fans realize.

When I played in the NFL, there were many teams that I played against that by "magic" seemed to know what our plays were. There were teams that I played against where I would ask myself, "How on earth do they know what plays we are running?"

You should know that cheating runs rampant in the NFL and it is not just the Patriots that are cheating. Yes, they got caught because they made their cheating too obvious. But make no mistake about it, it is a fact that all NFL teams cheat to some extent.

In my NFL career I was taught that a team has to do whatever it can do to get an advantage over the competition, and that cheating is considered okay as long as you don't get caught. It is just a part of the game. But in my heart I knew that cheating was wrong. As professional athletes and professional sports teams, we are supposed to be setting a good example of the highest level of sports. But we are not setting a good example. We are not playing fair. Maybe you can say cheating is fair because everybody is doing it but I think it is wrong. I believe in fair competition and what is happening in professional sports with cheating is a disgrace.

Another huge problem caused by pro teams cheating is that it teaches our children that cheating is okay - as long as you don't get caught. As pro athletes and sports teams, we need to set an example and teach kids that cheating is wrong.

Cheating is a black and white issue and there should be no gray areas. You cannot say cheating is okay for some things but wrong for other things. Cheating is always wrong and it cannot be tolerated. Cheating has a snowball effect. Kids learn that if they don't get caught, cheating is okay. So, after cheating a few times on small things and not getting caught, they move up to cheating on bigger things. That is when the real problems start as children and young adults do not understand the consequences for their actions, and by cheating they are being a dishonorable human being. If you cannot be trusted to play fair, you should not be allowed to play.

I feel that teams that cheat need to be punished and punished severely. Besides being fined and penalized with losing draft choices. Your team should automatically lose the game too. Coaches caught cheating should be suspended without pay for the season, or even fired. There has to be a system in place where the consequences of cheating are so severe that teams will not risk getting caught. It is sad that it has to come to this but cheating cannot be tolerated. Martin Chase is a retired NFL player who now owns a popular NFL Merchandise website at http://www.mcsportsfan.com. ]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/tips-to-catch-a-cheating-spouse http://www.artwoo.com/article/tips-to-catch-a-cheating-spouse#comments Wed, 12 Mar 2008 00:35:02 +0000 guilty feelingsphone conversationswrong numberscheating spousecritical situationlittle piecesaccusation http://www.artwoo.com/article/tips-to-catch-a-cheating-spouse cheating spouse.

Cheating is a very critical situation in any relationship. It is definitely not the right way to go about a relationship in which you are supposed to care for the other significant one involved. Discovering a spouse that is cheating can easily break the relationship or make it even stronger. This all depends upon the love for one another.

If you already have suspicions that your lover is being unfaithful to you, the best thing to do is keep quite about it. It is crucial to keep it hushed when you trying to catch a cheating spouse. Under any circumstances, do not give your spouse any reason to have suspicions that you even have the slightest clue about them cheating on you. You never want to make an accusation unless you have sufficient proof to back you up.

If you were known to be very trusting of your partner, you should be more observant and attentive about your spouse's activities. The littlest things should be looked into carefully. This can include the numerous wrong numbers as well as phone conversations that are taken in private.

You should start being cautious when your spouse starts having to go on trips without you. Be sure to check their pockets for notes written on little pieces of paper. Anything that you can find out about what they are doing will help you gather as much information as possible about what is currently going on in their life.

Just by watching your spouse's attitude, you can learn a lot. If they become more irritable and want to fight more often, this could be their way of countering the guilty feelings that they have for cheating on you. A spouse who is cheating can ignore their responsibilities that they have to the other spouse as well as the children. It's not the prettiest sight, especially when both of you are innocent.

It is hard to do what it takes in order to catch a cheating spouse. After all, you don't even want to find out that they are really cheating on you with someone else. Once you find out that they are cheating, it can be emotionally disturbing since there is always the chance that this discovery could break up the relationship with your significant other. Keep in mind, it is important to find out if they are cheating, nobody wants to be left in the dark on a situation like this. Remember to keep a low profile when you are trying to catch a cheating spouse until you have enough proof to provide them with when you let them know you aren't blind to what is going on. http://cheatingspousefix.com ]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheating-signs-how-people-get-away-with-infidelity http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheating-signs-how-people-get-away-with-infidelity#comments Fri, 06 Oct 2006 06:27:09 +0000 womancontactcheatingsexsending flowersword manipulationmistakes people http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheating-signs-how-people-get-away-with-infidelity
One of the biggest mistakes people make when they think they're being cheated on is allowing themselves to be manipulated. This is where you start to think that you're being cheated on, but your better half convinces you that you're not. What you need to know is that men and women manipulate differently.

Women manipulate men physically. They do this by using their bodies (think SEX here). A woman can pretty much get a man to think or do whatever they want by offering sex, or at least physical contact. For example, if you're a man and your woman starts to think that you're andquot;catching onandquot; to what she's doing behind your back, she'll offer herself physically as a method of changing your mind. Maybe she'll have sex with you. Maybe she will just let you put your arm around her. Maybe she'll just let you touch her while she's sitting next to you on the couch watching TV. In any event, she'll offer you some sort of physical interaction that will make you think andquot;gee, maybe she isn't cheating on meandquot;. If you're a man, remember this....women control almost all physical encounters. After all, if a woman says andquot;NOandquot;, it's rape.

The same rules don't apply to men. Now on the other side of the coin, men will manipulate by EMOTION. A man can get a woman to think or do whatever he wants by pretty much just saying what she wants to hear (or doing some little romantic trick like sending flowers). A man can sweep a woman off her feet with just words. A simple andquot;I love youandquot; or andquot;you're everything I've ever wanted and moreandquot; can emotionally melt most women.

So these are the things you need to watch out for. If you think your lover is cheating on you, and then all of a sudden they do something andquot;to make everything alrightandquot;, you my friend have just been manipulated. I know of men (who's wives or girlfriends were cheating on them) who bought expensive jewelry for their woman just because of some type of physical contact. I know of women (who's husbands or boyfriends were cheating on them) who dropped the whole notion of infidelity just because of receiving flowers or getting a loving message left on their answering machine. You need to be completely aware of manipulation like this in your relationship. If you've been emotionally abused or physically neglected for a time, and then all of a sudden something changes that makes you happy and relieved, odd's are you're being manipulated. Some women call this a andquot;mercy ...andquot;. Some men call this andquot;throwing her off the trailandquot;. In any event, you're letting your NEEDS open the door for your lover to keep cheating on you, undetected.

Manipulation is a very important key to look out for. If you're andquot;starvingandquot; for something in your relationship and then all of a sudden you get andquot;fedandquot;, well, there's a reason for that. And that reason is that your lover may be thinking you're andquot;on to themandquot;. Manipulation is the FIRST thing they'll use to shut you up. Watch out for it and don't fall for it! Remember what was said here! People are raving over Drew Bryant's new blog! For more information on Relationships and Infidelity check out... http://cheatingsigns.blogspot.com ]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheating-insurance-companies-dont-even-think-about-it http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheating-insurance-companies-dont-even-think-about-it#comments Tue, 17 Oct 2006 02:27:03 +0000 insurance companiesinsurance fraudneck bracewhos beenpeoples insuranceown insuranceinsurance policies http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheating-insurance-companies-dont-even-think-about-it neck brace everywhere...except when no one else is around? Do you know anyone who's been injured on the job and, while he can't make it to work, can still accept his best friend's invitation for a weekend of skiing? These people are cheating insurance companies, and cheating insurance companies, also known as insurance fraud, is illegal.

Sadly, cheating insurance companies is a fairly common practice. People cheat other people's insurance companies by suing for injuries that didn't occur; hence the need for the neck brace. People cheat their own insurance companies, or the insurance companies of their employers such as worker's compensation, when they claim to be too injured to work but are actually well enough to do everything else.

People who cheat insurance companies aren't just cheating the insurance companies; they're also cheating everyone else who owns an insurance policy through that income. You see, insurance companies are so fed up with, and drained by, those who cheat them that the cost of insurance policies raises. That means while these people are busy cheating insurance companies, honest people are busy spending more money on insurance than they should have to spend.

Since cheating insurance companies has become such a fairly common practice, many insurance companies are cracking down by investigating the "injuries" much more thoroughly than ever. Some insurance companies hire private investigators to keep surveillance on those they think may be cheating their company. This can be a pretty effective way of cutting down on insurance fraud since most people don't expect an insurance company to go out of its way and fork over even more cash to have them investigated. Therefore, the people who are actually cheating the insurance companies freely enjoy their newfound money or free paychecks and make it much easier for the insurance companies to bust them. http://www.myquoteguide.com/Student-Health.shtml http://www.ezquoteguide.com/home/ Wisconsin Car Insurance ]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/playstation-game-cheats-are-for-losers http://www.artwoo.com/article/playstation-game-cheats-are-for-losers#comments Thu, 03 May 2007 10:25:00 +0000 video game cheatsgame cheats playstationplaystation gamevideo gamesvictoryguesscheat to win http://www.artwoo.com/article/playstation-game-cheats-are-for-losers Playstation game cheats , are they ethical? Many people use game cheats when they cannot pass a certain game. What is the fun in that? Isn't the whole point of video games to you challenge you and make you think? I believe using video game cheats is taking the easy way out. There is no point in playing the video games if you are going to be given the answers.

There are some plus sides to using playstation game cheats . First it can be very frustrating when you cannot beat a certain level and the game cheats do help. But can you really consider that a victory when you cheat to beat a game? Some people do consider that a victory, I for one do not. I guess sometimes it is easier to take the easy way out.

I think this speaks volumes about who and what our society has come to. Sure it is just a video game but cheating is cheating anyway you look at it. If you cheat to win at a video game what else are you willing to cheat at to win. Does that mean every time something frustrates us we are going to cheat to get ahead?

Now let's take a look at the other side that believes if you are not cheating then you are not trying. Okay so let's take that into consideration. Based on that what about if you won all the time by cheating. What would the thrill in life or your video games be? Not cheating is what makes life so fun because you never know. When you cheat you take the thrill and the sweet taste of victory away. Yes you may still get your victory but it is flawed. The feeling you will get by winning and not cheating is 100 times better because you know you have accomplished it, without cheating. So go ahead and use your Playstation game cheats . But just know you will not have the same satisfaction as someone who does not use Playstation game cheats . Playstation Game Cheats Are For Losers was written by Eric Fields. To learn how to make money in your underwear visit: http://www.alliancesbusiness.com This article may be reprinted provided no part thereof is edited in any way and this resource box is included. ]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/ex-boyfriends-quotes http://www.artwoo.com/article/ex-boyfriends-quotes#comments Thu, 14 Aug 2008 07:08:13 +0000 miserable statemagazines bookslove quotesex boyfriendsstubbornnessmotivesmisery http://www.artwoo.com/article/ex-boyfriends-quotes
However we should ask ourselves what are the motives involved in looking for these quotes? Is it guilt, fantasy, nostalgia or plain old can't let go? Because before looking for ex-boyfriend quotes find out the reason and be clear about why that person is an ex.

As I said previously before anything else, examine the reason. A lot of the time it might be a way of living in the past and not facing up to reality and getting on with your life.

Sometimes it may be good to ask yourself some question, was the ex-boyfriend the type to say I love you? Is that a quote you heard often? Did it mean something when he said it? Most of the time, when we hear those three words and see it quoted somewhere the memories come flooding back.

I ask all the time, what's the point. Are we so consumed with thoughts of our ex-boyfriends, that any poem or quote we can tie to that person affects our whole being? Life is short and shouldn't be spent living in the past, love quotes tend to put us in places of security, totally ignoring the reality that exist.

My Grandmother was fond of saying, "You never miss the water till the well run dry." This may not qualify as an ex-boyfriend quote but as relationships go, it means that when you have someone or something and takes him/ her/ it for granted, when that person or thing is gone you then realize how much you miss them.

Its ironic how sometimes these quotes set you thinking and you realize how much you miss your ex-boyfriend but pride and stubbornness is keeping you from calling him up and giving the relationship another try. I always say go for it what is there to lose, you are already in misery. All of the ex-boyfriends quotes in the world wouldn't bring you out of the miserable state you are in. It surely wouldn't hurt to at least try to get that aspect of your life straightened out, once and for all. Then move on.

Strive on many occasions wherever possible to get out and about. Don't sit at home moping and wasting your life away pining for something that possibly will never return. You owe it to yourself to live for you, for the moment and for the future.Not that I am advocating that those little quotes don't mean anything but it helps to get over your ex-boyfriend and move on with your life.

Occasionally, the desire maybe to get your ex-boyfriend back cause you still love him and there are some eBooks and other books out there which show you how and it wouldn't hurt to read one or two if its your desire. You may find some pretty good quotes in them. It certainly couldn't be worse than how you are feeling.Here's a great little eBook that along with some ex-boyfriends quotes you may have found, shows how to win your ex back, a nice little read. Go check it out.]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/the-top-signs-of-a-cheating-girlfriend http://www.artwoo.com/article/the-top-signs-of-a-cheating-girlfriend#comments Wed, 12 Nov 2008 14:58:18 +0000 cheating girlfriendconfessed sinscheating mansign menfixing her hairexcessive timenth time http://www.artwoo.com/article/the-top-signs-of-a-cheating-girlfriend cheating girlfriend is worse than a cheating man. A lot of people would like to believe in this notion as the society perceives that it is an acceptable fact to encounter a cheating man than a woman. Although this conception sounds inequitable and unjust regardless of who cheats and who is being cheated, still it remains one sole truth, cheating will never be a form of excuse, not a sort of pretext nor a defense for ones self confessed sins.

How will you know if you are holding, hugging and kissing a cheating girlfriend? You need not lose sleep for there are warning signs which will tell you that an intruder is coming to get your girl and to your surprise, your unfaithful girlfriend welcomes this trespasser with open arms. Beware and know how to foresee if she is really playing games and doing something behind your back. Here are the top signs of disloyalty and double-crossing:

A cheating girlfriend has more time doing business outside.

This is primarily the sign men should be sensible enough to sense. If a woman starts spending more time outside of the house than she normally does then there must be something worthwhile outside which keeps her from spending more time at home. If this happens recurrently then you should be raising your signals up to fetch something to clear such issues.

A cheating girlfriend is becoming more mindful of the way she looks

This is one thing that you also need to look at. If you see your girl spending excessive time looking at the mirror, fixing her hair and redoing her make up for the nth time then this could be a sign. If she does not care having an all-messed-up hair when she's with you and have a very well fixed one the time she leaves without you, then you need to be guarded with this kind of gesture. Women have a way of hiding things more than you could ever imagine. Therefore, as a man, you need to make certain that you are not being tricked and deceived easily.

A cheating girlfriend does not leave her mobile phone and personal belongings

Almost all cheaters are like this, however women are not exempted. You can easily come to the conclusion that she is doing something out of your love nest if she never leaves her valuable things without her presence. If you will try to notice, women would even bring along her mobile phone even by just merely going to the bathroom. If you observe this kind of action and she fails to surrender her things to you then you can say that she might be hiding something from you. Something that she does not want you to see and she does not want you to discover.

A cheating girlfriend is difficult if you already invested so much love for the person. You can simply tell by her actions, the way she verbalizes and the way she looks at you. A cheating girlfriend cannot look at you straight into the eye so you better make sure you are able to see through the language of her eyes and smell that something fishy is going on.Ready to learn the top signs of a cheating girlfriend? Get free access to learn the exact secret on how to get your ex back quick, no matter how impossible your situation seems. Go to http://www.GetYourExBackInstantly.com NOW!]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheating-man-top-10-signs-of-a-cheating-man http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheating-man-top-10-signs-of-a-cheating-man#comments Tue, 10 Jul 2007 02:25:01 +0000 signs of a cheating manhow to tell if your man is cheatingeasier than evernew hair stylenon existentpassenger seatinternet accessibility http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheating-man-top-10-signs-of-a-cheating-man easier than ever. There are various ways of how to tell if your man is cheating. We have listed the top 10 signs of a cheating man below. How to know if your man is cheating? If your man exhibits any of the below, it may be time to take a closer look.

1. Spends less time with you. A cheating man must use the excuse of working long hours, extra meetings and dinners or other unexplained functions so he will have time with his "other" woman.

2. Isn't as affectionate any more. Your sex life is almost non-existent because of his other commitments. He doesn't want to cuddle, watch a movie, hold hands or do many of the touchy things he used to.

3. He changes his physical appearance. A cheating man usually starts buying new clothes, gets a new hair style or begins working out because he wants to be attractive to the other woman in his life besides you.

4. Car changes. The passenger seat in the car has been moved or there is an unknown hair on the car seat. Perhaps the radio station is on an irregular station because that's what she likes.

5. Cheating man becomes more short-tempered because of the guilty feelings as a result of the infidelity. Things that usually did not bother them suddenly start bothering them.

6. A cheating man may smell of perfume, smoke or alcohol, especially if he hasn't had time to change them from meeting with her.

7. Behavioral changes. A cheating man frequently becomes defensive when questioned about his whereabouts. He may turn it around to accuse you of being insecure, possessive or snoopy.

8. Cell phone changes. A cheating man can not leave his telephone turned on when with you because his other woman may phone him. He may leave the room to have a telephone conversation or say strange things after he picks up a message from his lover. Watch for calls in the middle of the night. If you have access to his telephone bill, check it closely. Look for repeated unknown numbers, times and durations.

9. Computer usage changes. A cheating man may utilize a computer to seek out partners or communicate with. If your man is on his computer for long periods of time at night and he closes the door so you won't see him, he may be communicating or chatting with his love interest.

10. Changes in spending habits. You can tell if your man is cheating if he is suddenly always broke. He's broke because he is spending all of his money on the other woman. Watch as to whether he is paying with cash and making more frequent ATM withdrawals to cover his paper trail. Check any receipts, bill's or stubs that you may have access to.

Once you know if your man is cheating or not, make sure you have a plan of action that you will take after you accuse him. You need to decide whether it's time for you to move on or whether this relationship may be worth a second chance. Online Dating and Infidelity Expert, Stephany Alexander, B.A. is CEO/Founder of http://www.WomanSavers.com, the "World's Largest Database Rating Men" and the author of "Sex, Lies and the Internet" - How to Avoid Being Scammed, Used and Abused by Men. Featured on FOX, CNN, New York Times, CNBC and more! ]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/5-ways-to-determine-if-your-spouse-is-cheating http://www.artwoo.com/article/5-ways-to-determine-if-your-spouse-is-cheating#comments Wed, 15 Oct 2008 05:50:19 +0000 many different waysred flagcolognephone callperfumeovertimeexcuse http://www.artwoo.com/article/5-ways-to-determine-if-your-spouse-is-cheating many different ways to determine whether your spouse is cheating on you and the 5 below are the easiest.

1. Changed Routines -- One thing you want to look for if you think your spouse may be cheating on you is if he or she changes up their routine suddenly. For instance, let's say they work at a job where they've never had to stay late and suddenly, they have been working a lot of 'overtime.'

Another example could be if your husband or wife have suddenly started going to visit friends in the evening or going out with the 'boys' or 'ladies.' While this doesn't mean for certain that your spouse is cheating, it's certainly a red flag.

2. Changes in Appearance -- This is another classic sign. If your spouse has dressed a certain way for years and suddenly they have changed their appearance or dress, you may need to be suspicious. They might have gotten a new hairstyle, different clothes, suddenly started wearing perfume or cologne, etc. These are all signs that your spouse may be trying to look great for someone else.

3. Unexplained Calls -- If your spouse's cell phone bill or the house phone bill has had some strange calls lately, you may want to take a second look. Check for a repeat number that you don't recognize. Also, if you've been having hang-up calls, it could be your spouse's lover trying to get in touch with them. While there are cases of calls being billed to the wrong account, if this happens more than once, you should start getting suspicious.

4. Running Out Quickly -- Have you noticed your spouse getting a phone call that was 'not important' but making an excuse to run out shortly after? This happens a lot when someone is cheating and it may be that your spouse's lover has called and he or she is running out to meet with them. Pay attention to your spouse and how many times in a week they 'run out quickly' or get an emergency call from a friend. Offer casually to ride with them and see if they turn you down.

5. New Sexual Behavior -- Another thing that many people notice when their spouses are cheating is that the activity in the bedroom changes. It may slack off or stop completely -- or your spouse may try new and different things that they've never tried before. While this isn't a concern by itself, when in combination with the above signs, you may want to find out why the bedroom activities have changed.

There are many different signs that your spouse may be cheating, however, these are the most common ones. While each one of them alone may be no cause to worry, two or more together could mean the worst. Use these signs to help you determine whether your spouse is cheating.Danielle Taylor is a freelance author, and a mom of 3, who lived through a tough divorce with her husband of 15 years, and managed to get back on track as a successful and happy person. Visit www.Xstilla.com to read more of her articles and get help from members of the divorce support community!]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/how-to-cheat-in-a-computer-game http://www.artwoo.com/article/how-to-cheat-in-a-computer-game#comments Tue, 14 Nov 2006 06:27:03 +0000 computer gamecomputer gamesgame playersmultiplayer gamescomputer settingstechnicallyexploits http://www.artwoo.com/article/how-to-cheat-in-a-computer-game computer games this definition become hard to follow. Taking advantage or lying to your fellow game players does not automatically mean you are cheating.

Cheating in a computer game is defined by the game and the people who are playing it.A lot of computer games come with a "cheat code". This is usually to help a person get started and makes the game a little easier. They are usually designed for a single player. If you use these cheat codes you are cheating technically but it doesn't mean you have an advantage.

The most common occurrence of cheating is when there are multiplayer and mass multiplayer games through the internet. In this instance, the players are not known to each other so they don't have the restrictive influence of being seen by their opponents.

There are two main areas of cheating in computer games. You can change your settings through the use of exploits, bugs and external software or cheesing.

If you alter your computer settings, the layout of the computer's hardware or the computer game to fit your gaming style you are cheating in a sense and this can be alright. But if you went even further and changed the brightness or the color of the screen in order to see better in shadow areas it becomes questionable.

Exploits are termed as errors in the game itself that give an advantage to one person or another. If someone deliberately uses those it a game, it could be considered cheating but it also could add to the excitement of the game.

There are software programs you can purchase that modify a program that runs computer game. This is a more serious form of cheating. Other software programs study the status of the game through the computer's RAM

Another form of cheating is called cheesing. This is when the players do things that cannot happen in real life or are not allowed in real life.

The most common of game cheats these days find ways to change the game's software. Even if the game developers try to encrypt or protect the files, there are software programs that will be able to change the game's code without changing the main program. Cheats of this kind may be detected using programs that are installed on a server.

Preventing computer game cheaters is not easy. There are a lot of grey areas to agree on and consider before you term someone a cheat. Beverly Kane is a staff writer at http://www.gamesenthusiast.com and is an occasional contributor to several other websites, including http://www.theshoppinggazette.com. ]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/online-infidelity-assessment-is-he-cheating http://www.artwoo.com/article/online-infidelity-assessment-is-he-cheating#comments Sat, 04 Oct 2008 20:08:33 +0000 signs of infidelitysurviving infidelityindisputable proofcheating womencheating husbandonline dating sitesmarried men http://www.artwoo.com/article/online-infidelity-assessment-is-he-cheating married men do not see online dating and conversations as being a form of cheating. Women feel much different, cheating is cheating, no matter when, where or how.

You know the routine. Woman sees the signs of infidelity, is sure she is dealing with a cheating husband but doesn't know where to go from there. They question "is he cheating" and begin to wonder how they can find out for sure.

And that is where online infidelity assessments come in. These great little services providers can for a few dollars provide a whole worlds worth of answers. Though they cannot help you with surviving infidelity, they can provide you with the solid proof you are seeking. Though the do charge for these services the fees associated with the infidelity assessments are well worth the cost. After all, you cannot place a price tag on your own piece of mind and resolution to a situation as devastating as infidelity.

What exactly do these services do?

They will run through a database of online dating sites (the statistics for infidelity rates in North America are on a scary increase) to determine if your partner is registered with any of the sites. This can indicate they are on the "market" for a new partner, otherwise, what would a married man be doing registered for any of these such sites.

Once found out they can also do another search on your cheating husband to get proof.

They will go to lengths to get the ad they are using to attract a mistress. Some will even go to the extent of trying to make contact with your partner under the surmise of being another women, matching your husbands criteria. They can even take it a step further and try to get them to exchange photos and phone numbers so that you have solid, indisputable proof of what your cheating husband will do or is doing already.

This service can put your mind at ease and help you to come to terms with whether he is cheating or not. These things are not for the light hearted. The news, once more than a suspicion and concrete proof can tear your world apart. You need to ensure you have support for instances when your suspicions of infidelity are proven to be accurate.

If this is what you really want and the route you are seeking to take you should check out online services. With many years in the private investigators industries they bring to the table a wealth of experience and although the Internet and online infidelities are a newer epidemic, they can undertake the task of doing an online infidelity assessment and finally providing you with the proof and answers you need to approach your cheating husband.

Don't delay though, everyday you wait is another day of your life wasted on a cheating husband, another day of your life that could have been spent coping with infidelity and moving forward in your life. Don't settle for second best. You deserve to be the only woman in a deserving man's life. If you are seeing the signs of infidelity online, you need to protect yourself and your emotions and find out the truth.Ed Opperman invites you to visit his dating service search website for all of your investigation search needs. He offers cyber investigations email IP address trace, telephone investigations, and more. To learn how you can catch them cheating online please click here now: ===> http://www.emailrevealer.com]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/6-signs-of-a-cheating-wife http://www.artwoo.com/article/6-signs-of-a-cheating-wife#comments Mon, 08 Jan 2007 00:27:11 +0000 signs of a cheating wifecircle the wagonsmarriageinklingapparent reasonintimate levelfriends and co http://www.artwoo.com/article/6-signs-of-a-cheating-wife inkling that something may be wrong with your marriage do you know the signs that you may have a cheating wife? If the signs are there it might be time to circle the wagons and make a decision as to how to handle the situation. Unfortunately handling a wife's infidelity is a emotional issue and for many men is something they don't even want to think about, let alone deal with. What you decide to do is entirely personal, no matter the advice one may get from family, friends and co-workers. Knowing the signs of a cheating wife at the very least gives you a head start on where your marriage may be going and how to best protect yourself emotionally and financially.

1. Changes in appearance -- This one can go both ways. While it just may be nothing more than a change in her attitude about herself and how she wants to look it can also be a warning sign that she wants to look good for someone else. If she suddenly changes her hairstyle, has her nails done and dresses more provocatively you need to be worried why, particularly if you notice new lingerie in the laundry that she hasn't ever worn for you.

2. Diminished intimacy -- Not only in the bedroom but in daily life as well. If you used to have the kind of relationship where you and your wife shared and talked about everything and she begins to distance herself from you there may be a problem that you need to investigate. In the bedroom she may no longer show any interest in being intimate with you or if she does she displays a whole new sexual repertoire and interest in new things. This can be good if it's something you've talked about, but if it just starts to happen for no apparent reason it can be a sign that she is learning new things somewhere else.

3. Less arguing and fighting - If your wife is not only distancing herself from you on an intimate level but also you notice you are not arguing with her as much as you used to it can be a sign she isn't interested in what you are doing whether it's good or bad in her mind.

4. Disinterest in family -- Loss of interest in family functions and spending less time with not only you and the kids but with her extended family as well. This can be a sign of trying to hide whatever she's doing on the sly.

5. More phone and internet -- If she's spending more time on the phone but out of earshot or late nights on the internet when you are asleep or doesn't want you around while she's doing whatever it is she's doing online can be a sign of a cheating wife.

6. Changes in children's behavior -- If you have kids strange changes in their behavior can be a signal. It's not that they know the truth of what's going on but they are very perceptive to changes in their parent's behavior and will react to these changes in emotional and physical ways.

These are six good signs that your wife may be cheating. Each one taken alone may not mean much but if you notice 2 or more of these signs it is time to start thinking about taking some sort of action to find out the truth. Nobody wants to find out their wife is cheating on them but sometimes the best defense is a good offense. Andrew Bicknell researches and writes about a variety of subjects. To learn more about the signs of a cheating wife click http://www.search-find-investigate.com/investigation/lp/cheating-wife.htm ]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/how-to-catch-my-cheating-wife http://www.artwoo.com/article/how-to-catch-my-cheating-wife#comments Sat, 03 Feb 2007 16:27:24 +0000 signs of infidelitytell tale signssexual intimacycheating wifedesirehaving an affairemotional turmoil http://www.artwoo.com/article/how-to-catch-my-cheating-wife cheating wife" you may be getting ahead of yourself. If you have solid proof that your wife is already involved in an affair then you don't need to read any farther. If you are at a point in your marriage where you have that terrible feeling deep down inside that your wife is cheating then it may be time to start looking for the signs of infidelity. If the signs are there then it is time to find out the truth so that the emotional turmoil not knowing can be put to rest.

For many men dealing with a wife's infidelity can be something they don't initially want to deal with. The emotional impact can be more than you want to handle and any decisions made to deal with the betrayal are entirely personal. Advice will come from any number of people including friends, family and coworkers but in the end only you know your true feelings on the issue and how best to deal with it.

If you truly believe your wife may be cheating on you it is good to know the many tell tale signs to look for. Once you have established that things have changed then you can take the next step of getting the evidence needed and catch your cheating wife. Here are some of the signs to look for if you suspect your wife of having an affair.

•Diminished sense of intimacy -- If you get that sense that your wife just isn't interested in you then you may have a problem. This extends beyond the bedroom and into everyday life. If you used to have a sharing wife who talked to you about everything and shared intimate details about herself but she has suddenly seemed to distance herself from these intimate conversations then there may be reason to suspect her. When it comes to sexual intimacy this can play out two ways. She may no longer show any desire to be intimate with you or she may suddenly start a whole new sexual repertoire and a desire to try things she never wanted to do before. If this is something you have talked about, this new sexual gymnastics then this is probably not a problem, but if it just starts out of the blue it could be a sign that she is learning new things from someone else.

• A decrease in arguments -- When the intimacy goes you may also notice a change in what sets her off. Things that normally used to make her mad may no longer bring out her anger. This can be seen as a sign that she isn't much interested in what you are doing, even if it's something that would usually make her mad.

• Changes in dress and appearance -- If your normally conservative wife suddenly starts to dress more provocatively or makes a drastic change in her physical appearance with a new haircut and spending more time putting on her make up before she leaves for the day it may be more than her just wanting to look good. This is particularly true if you compliment her on her new look but she just brushes you off.

• Less interest in friends and family -- If she starts spending less time with you and the kids for other activities that she attends alone you may need to start doing some investigating. This is also true if she isn't as active with her usual circle of friends and family members.

• Kid's behavior changes -- Kids are extremely perceptive creatures and even though they may not say anything sudden changes in the way the react around their mom could have some meaning. They may not know exactly what is going on but they will react to changes in her behavior as well.

Dealing with a cheating wife is something no man wants to have to go through. Once the signs of cheating become evident it is up to you to decide how to answer your original question, "How to catch my cheating wife?" If the signs of a cheating wife are there and you want to learn more about how to catch my cheating wife click here http://www.search-find-investigate.com/investigation/lp/cheating-wife.htm. ]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/a-profile-of-a-cheating-spouse http://www.artwoo.com/article/a-profile-of-a-cheating-spouse#comments Tue, 29 Jul 2008 00:15:23 +0000 provocative clothesappearance changespsychological gameslow self esteemcheating spousescheating spousetime at home http://www.artwoo.com/article/a-profile-of-a-cheating-spouse low self esteem, causing them to continually look for validation and approval from others, and often others who are of the opposite sex. Cheating spouses also tend to play psychological games with their partners, accusing them of being the ones who are unfaithful in at attempt to take the focus off of their own transgressions and guilt.

While there's no one particular rule book to follow as to what a cheating spouse does or will do, there are definitely some obvious signs and changes that one should be able to recognize. Here are just a few of those changes to watch for that cheating spouses often make in their lives:

- Changes in appearance: Are your wife's nails always neatly manicured when before it wasn't ever a concern of hers? Has her hairstyle dramatically changed or is she now wearing more provocative clothes? Is your husband now suddenly overly concerned with his appearance?

- Changes in demeanor: A cheating spouse will most usually begin behaving differently in some way or another. Usually at the beginning of the affair, or when one is contemplating one, they will become more attentive to their spouse, which is, of course, due to the guilt they're feeling. It's also often said that women who are cheating will have a certain "glow" about them, similar to a giddy teenager "in love."

Other times, people who are cheating will go out of their way to avoid an argument at all costs and becomes either defensive or visibly nervous when the subject of infidelity is brought up or discussed.

- Changes in interest on the home front: A cheating spouse will most usually lose interest in family life, or things that go on around the house, or become noticeably lazy when at home. A man may take less interest in doing repairs or keeping up the appearance of the home, or take less of an interest in the kids, while a woman may also lose interest in housework, making dinner, or spending time at home. Both sexes may become indifferent when it comes to family gatherings or get-togethers, while others will avoid activities like attending church.

- Changes in grooming habits: By the time we're adults, most of us have adopted our own grooming habits and patterns that we follow on a daily basis. For instance, some of us shower in the morning before work, while others prefer to do so in the evening before bed, while others still may do both.

Regardless of the frequency of bathing or showering, a cheating spouse will almost always make subtle, or sometimes even noticeable, changes to their routine that's relatively easy to pick up on, provided you're actually looking, that is. Does your husband now wear cologne wherever he goes but never did before? Does he take it with him to the "gym"? Is he now showering as soon as he returns home, or before getting into bed at night?

Since everyone is different, not every person will fit the profile of a cheating spouse all of the time, so it's important to trust your instincts and intuition when it comes to finding out if your mate has indeed been unfaithful to you.Is your spouse cheating or do you suspect that they're involved with someone else. Don't just stand back, find out how you can successfully deal with this behavior now. Visit http://www.xstilla.com, the number one resource and online divorce forum for people who are dealing with marital issues and needing online divorce support from members who care and want to help.]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/online-bingo-the-safest-choice http://www.artwoo.com/article/online-bingo-the-safest-choice#comments Wed, 05 Jul 2006 16:27:07 +0000 bingo gameonline bingobingo gamesonline casinosbingodromecheatinginnocent game http://www.artwoo.com/article/online-bingo-the-safest-choice Cheating is quite common in most online casinos, as well as land-based casinos. Many have realized that there is a lot of money to be made in the casino environment.

Bingo is a relatively cheat free game, but there are some really interesting stories of players cheating in this supposedly innocent game. The renowned author, John Scarne, writes about a few instances of players and casinos cheating at bingo. An almost unbelievable story is of an old lady in her seventies who walked away with more than $200,000 by cheating at a land-based hall!

There are dozens of cheating guides available, especially on internet, which can teach you the basic steps of cheating at almost any game you can think of. And the best part -- many of them are for free.

The question then is, is gaming still safe? Most casinos have put in place strict safety measures. Players and games are closely watched. The same goes for online casinos. Most of these sites have security measures.

Although there are some dishonest players, cheating in Online Bingo is fortunately not that common, and the game is still relatively safe.

Why are online bingo games safer than land-based counterpart? Because players do not daub their own cards, cheating is relatively difficult. Some online bingo games have strict safety measures.

All you have to do is know how to find an honest and safe online bingo site. One of my favorites is bingodrome.com">http://www.bingodrome.com.. Not only is it a safe and secure site, but dishonest players are scarce. The reason is strict safety measures.

When looking for a safe online bingo game, you have to look at the following:

1) Are players prohibited from having multiple accounts? 2) Are the rules concerning cash-outs strict and honest? 3) Do they keep your details safe?

You might wonder why these are the most important things to look at when looking for a safe online bingo game. The reasons are quite simple. It is important that players are allowed to have only on account; otherwise they will cheat you out of your money! Cash-outs should be strict and safe, so you can know that your money are in good hands and will be kept safe. Some online bingo sites sell player information, and therefore it is important to find a site that will guard your personal details. Emma Madison has been an online bingo fanatic for over 7 years. Though she has played other forms of online gambling, Emma has always stated that bingo is her true passion. Her internet bingo related publications are filled with interesting and useful online bingo tips. Her many articles she has written can be found at: http://www.online-bingo.net ]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/is-my-man-cheating-reporting-unfaithful-men http://www.artwoo.com/article/is-my-man-cheating-reporting-unfaithful-men#comments Wed, 06 Aug 2008 18:02:02 +0000 unfaithful mendating methodscheating mancheating menfalse identitiesregistration stepsinnocent persons http://www.artwoo.com/article/is-my-man-cheating-reporting-unfaithful-men
Report on the Web Besides using the Web for such subversive reasons, the primary goal when using it reporting cheating men is to apprize men from continuing cheating and avoiding this situation to become harder. This method is also used to stop them hurting other people that might get involved in the meantime. Having in mind the effectiveness of the internet regarding the circulation of information, the suggested choices for reporting unfaithful men are the various websites at your disposal that offer women the possibility to reveal someone's dating history, and ensure that they do not get involved with a men that has an unexpected track record.

The rapid growth in online dating methods has a high risk degree considering the man, and effective reporting practices show these rascals, and try to avert innocent persons from suffering disappointments and disillusionment. Most powerful and up-to-date search engines are designed to search and gather valuable information about each cheating individual. There are many unfaithful men who are used to provide or create false identities, thus women have the possibility to offer minute information about them is case of cheating.

After the completion of registration process, the deceived one can place a picture and build the cheating man's profile, who is going to be identified by name and city. After men have completed the registration steps, they can choose to quit and be removed from the website in exchange for a small fee used for charity purposes. This kind of sites are known as public service and offer protection within the dating circle.

Women seeking for revenge after cases of cheating and betrayal are customary. Plus, the websites stated above place victims one step forward and allow them to ease their frustration. The website "womansavers.com" it is known as being the largest database containing information about 25.000 cheating men,caught and reported by their victims. The Legal Matter Looking on a larger scale, the internet can provide information about almost any reasonable topic, and not all of it has authoritative basis. Research shows that some women kept back their true identities when gave an account of cheating men and many of those accused threatened to sue. In this case, a rough slander problem occurs, and the accused person must prove that the declaration made is true.

Finally, when reporting cheating men there are also other alternatives, and although many considered that it was a personal issue to require intimate address and possible remission, the common consensus supposed that men should be discredit in public, and the victim had then the possibility to start a new life and try to forget about the disappointment suffered. One proposal even stated to change the parenting rights, but the overall opinion favored the first alternative, to supply information to possible victims.Get free tips on the sign of men cheating as well as videos of men cheating on their wives when you visit http://www.infidelityman.com, the premier portal on is my man cheating tutorials]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheat-online-poker-become-a-winner-today http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheat-online-poker-become-a-winner-today#comments Fri, 26 Sep 2008 01:36:27 +0000 world of pokerpocket cardsprofessional pokerhole cardsplaying pokerwinning the gamepoker players http://www.artwoo.com/article/cheat-online-poker-become-a-winner-today playing poker -- whether online or conventional, cheating is rampant. It seems to be an inbuilt part of the game. Almost everyone cheats because everyone desires to win. This, cheating has a distinct connotation as far as playing poker is concerned. As long as there are people who loves to have an invincible edge at the table, there will be cheating. You, too, can learn how to cheat online poker and become a winner today!


There are various software programs available in the internet that allows you to learn the rudiments of how to cheat online poker.

What these software programs give you are the following:

• Strategies to play it "right"

• Instant cheat online poker advice, and suggestions

• Automated mathematical calculations to instantly calculate hand and pot odds

• Displays statistics to analyze and monitor opponents

• The ability to learn the kinds of pocket cards opponents play

In the world of poker, cheating takes a different turn. Unlike cheating in casinos, there are four levels of cheat online poker:

1. Minor cheating -- the most common level of cheating, usually done with friends who do not play together but informing one another of hole cards over the phone of instant messaging

2. Idiot cheating -- more obvious cheating where players who have timed out are still able to put a bet

3. Inept collusion -- where din-witted partners team up and conspire that everyone else knows they are engaged in cheating

4. Expert collusion -- the expert cheating, where professional poker players conspire in an effective way that the cheating is hardly discoverable; there is also such things as "self-collusion" where a player engages in the same game under two different accounts


There are other forms of cheat online poker as well:

1. Misuse of the "disconnect protect". This is an automated feature that protects an online player should his internet connection fail him at a critical time during the game.

2. Hacking the online poker software in an attempt to secure information vital to winning the game.

3. The use of bots- automated programs that play instead of human. Although their ability to win remains to be an argument, the use of bots in card rooms goes against the rules and is therefore still considered as a form of cheating.


There are several other methods to cheat online poker. While they may differ in features and implementation, there is one goal to these methods: beat the odds and win the game.

While it is relatively easy to cheat online, the same degree if not more are the chances of being caught. It is so obvious to say that card rooms abhor cheats. This would mean less money intake for them. Therefore, card rooms employ a broad range of anti-cheat and anti-collusion technology from the most evident to the least.

More than the prospects of being caught, one's best cheat online poker and become a winner today is to hone your poker skills by playing more and more games- with time and money that you can afford to spend.Ready to cheat online poker?andnbsp; We teach you secrets in our FREE e-course that the pros never want you to learn.andnbsp; You could easily win $50 an hour or more playing SNG's or Cash Games Online.andnbsp; Go to www.PokerOnlineSchool.com for a free e-course on how to dominate the competition in cash games and sit-n-go's.andnbsp;]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/catch-a-man-cheating-what-do-wedded-men-feel-like-after-cheating http://www.artwoo.com/article/catch-a-man-cheating-what-do-wedded-men-feel-like-after-cheating#comments Mon, 04 Aug 2008 05:29:09 +0000 cheating mensecret womanunfaithful husbandfirst glancemarried menstrange sensemonotony http://www.artwoo.com/article/catch-a-man-cheating-what-do-wedded-men-feel-like-after-cheating
Brit Ekland one time stated that she had never slept with married men, but in the sense that she never did it never with happily married men.

At first glance, it is compliant that men feel quite good after cheating.

In time, on account of marriage compliance and monotony, it has been shown that men feel trapped, consider that their wives can't understand them, and therefore suffer from this situation. After cheating, men have a strange sense of relief combined with welfare, and its essence cannot be denied.

Furthermore, men are drawn by passion and after wedded men have taken a false step, it's interesting that although many admit that infidelity is bad, many of them still practice it. They apologies a lot, but sustain that they can hardly master the psychological hunger for sex and among those who do it again it is a way to maintain their ego.

Men feel strong and their masculinity becomes visible when they are near a women and have the chance to take care of such sensitive,tender and obedient persons as them. When cheating, men often feel neglected and are misled by the delusion that their wives do not fully comprehend them and do not offer the respect they need.

Unhappily, after cheating, the husband finds himself without any drop of respect or dignity and moreover, he realizes that the respect he had was bounded to his wife, not to a secret woman with no sense of commitment. It is important to keep in mind that when we assume responsibility, we have to be careful because our freedom is in stake.

Remorse feelings

An important aspect is that after marriage, men become much more accustomed with women around them, and represent an attraction towards the opposite sex. In these circumstances, the unfaithful husband holds that he never intended to leave his wife, but wanted to get involved in an handy affair to satisfy his needs. Most women dealing with married men relationships disclosed the main reason for which they ended it was their marriage; it reminded men about their mistakes and because they were not willing to leave their wives, the relationships had no future.

Of course, there are men who strongly believe that they can offer unconditionally love to their wives and still have sex with other women, without no hard feelings; in their opinion the relationship is just a physical one, without any emotional behavior being involved . On account of men powerlessness to offer integrity, married man who cheat feel that they never abandoned their loved ones, just involved in an unimportant physical affair.

Finally, remorse feelings prove married men that the balance they are looking for lies in their marriage, and this belief is the one requires on order to avoid future mistakes. The unfaithful husband knows that his deed will shade their marriage, always reminding them about his infidelity. And this situation may be improved but it needs a lot of love, commitment and most importantly, trust and fidelity. Obviously, this is a clear proof of the price paid when committing this kind of nonsense. Therefore, it is better to think twice before cheating, and in a marriage it's crucial the existence of agreement and communication between partners.Get to know your cheating men facts before you take the next action and learn the insider tips from the experts on how to stop your man from cheating when you visit http://www.infidelityman.com, the number one resources on catch a man cheating]]> http://www.artwoo.com/article/why-todays-society-actively-encourages-the-cheating-spouse http://www.artwoo.com/article/why-todays-society-actively-encourages-the-cheating-spouse#comments Wed, 30 Aug 2006 00:27:04 +0000 cheating spousesmonogamous relationshipmonogamous animalscheating wivescheating spousemonogamous relationshipsbirds show http://www.artwoo.com/article/why-todays-society-actively-encourages-the-cheating-spouse monogamous relationships but one clear fact as we know it is that today's ever evolving society is a breeding ground for the cheating spouse.

Scientists characterize a monogamous relationship as a breeding pair who share the same nest in a common territory but most importantly 'have frequent contact'. It has been clearly noted that monogamous males are involved in parental care, spend there energy ensuring the safety and security of their family and reject intrusion into the 'nest'. Those who enjoy a greater freedom in life and roam a wider territory are more likely to cheat on their spouse than someone who enjoys the confines of an all encompassing and close relationship.

The most monogamous animals are birds with over 90% of species pairing up with exclusive rights and joint parental care. Not all scientists are in agreement but evidence suggests that birds show far more commitment to their partners and family than humans with very few opting to relinquish their duties as husband, father and family provider.

What is interesting to note, and a fact that can then be associated with our continually changing society, is that monogamy (in females) rarely occurs when the female is left to roam through a larger territory with free access to other males rejecting the confines of a solitary environment. It is then easy to see that animals as well as humans are susceptible to cheating on their spouse when it comes to an opportunity, as they see it, being handed to them on a plate.

When studying nature and combining it with what we are now seeing within society its then more easy to understand that society as we now know it is developing in such a way as to actively encourage both cheating men and cheating wives to seek sexual relationships outside of the marital bed. The ever increasing number of cheating spouses has a distinct link to the life we now live.

The freedom that we have in our modern world with the general practice of partners enjoying different activities and generally doing their own thing in much of their spare time acts as a catalyst for cheating spouses.

If you consider how easy infidelity can occur and understand why we are, in a way, channeling our relationships in such a way as to actively and openly encourage cheating we begin to understand and accept the theory that for a relationship to grow and flourish you have to spend quality time with your partner and not base a relationship around ships that pass in the night. Terry Ross is te author on and the creator of: http://www.commonmarriageproblems.marriagehealth.com/Why_Men_Cheat.html ]]>